My Psychologist LIED and Denied Paper Evidence Dianosis ! !!
It's really at the very LAST moment when capitalist neurotypicals stick the dagger in, and twist.
My new psychologist diagnosed me "officially" at my last session with her.
A $150 session no less, and it's taken me a long time to convince my family to pony up this cash for this fucknut of a psychologist. I've had 4 sessions, Which adds up to 700 dollars, cold hard cash. For what ? not gas in my car, not food in my mouth, not a roof over my head, .... just for her "opinion". And don't give me that BS that she's a "doctor" and I owe her insane cash because she went to psycho school and got a degree.
So basically, in the last session, she promised me she'd email me the official diagnosis. Since she "couldn't print one out" there in her office, which is a lie, because she has a big expensive office, and she has a printer.
2 weeks go by. No email. No official diagnosis on paper.
Her stupid secretary told me "she (the psychologist) will talk it over with you at your next session".
At $150 I bet she will. I doubt she's going to give it to me in paper now. Now that I see her true nature.
Which is a greedy capitalist spineless-rat.
I don't know what I'm going to do now.
I could just go along with this b***h and pretend she's not assfucking me out of all my money and time.
But I doubt anything will come of it. She's already talking about getting me on meds when I TOLD HER I don't want meds, I've already gone that route. I don't need meds, I need money, support, and for the system to work FOR me, not against me, as it is currently doing.
I would go to her office in person and tell her you did not get any paper in your email which she promised. Tell her you are not paying another $150 that you don't have just for her to print out a form. Tell her you are not made of money like the guy on the Geico Motocycle insurance commercial. Say you cannot afford to see her on an ongoing basis and the reason for seeing her is for assessment purposes ONLY.
Stand up for yourself and call her out on any baloney excuses that she tries to give you that she can't print out any form stating your diagnosis. Demand the paper in person from the secretary.
I stand up to dirtbags in the medical profession all the time and am not afraid to call them out on their baloney lies. I don't care if they went to medical school or if they are the queen of England. Trust me I have heard it all in 10 years of being a patient having seen close to 200 different doctors/psychologists/health professionals.
Thanks , well said.
Don't get the impression that I'm the type that p*****s out, and just goes along with the latest abuses.
Actually, this is kind of a problem for me. I dislike people (for excellent reasons I may post about later).
I don't like "normal" people. Why ? Easy. If normalized society was peaceful, helpful, and life-affirming, I'd be all for "normal people". Really.
However, the reality is that society and mainstream "normal" society and culture is akin to a meat grinder at your local meat market. And the authorities, the rich, and anyone with real power in the system are coralling the masses to the mouth of this meat grinder, and they expect you to be respectful, be quiet and humble (not them of course, they get to me avaricious, greedy and violent), and don't talk back to anyone (I've had employers literally say this to my face, even before I said anything, before they even knew me, obviously they have no interest in me, who I am, or my personality, just my raw labor for their benefit) so that after they're finished using you up like the piece of meat you are, they just turn the crank and make tasty sausages out of you. Some spice and fennel seeds in those sausages will make them fit to feed their priviledged children with.
If you think this is harsh language, try being pushed from place to place while you're losing money all the while, and having to deal with and live in a society that disdains your very existence, then demands respect, deference, and acquiescence.
My new psychologist diagnosed me "officially" at my last session with her.
A $150 session no less, and it's taken me a long time to convince my family to pony up this cash for this fucknut of a psychologist. I've had 4 sessions, Which adds up to 700 dollars, cold hard cash. For what ? not gas in my car, not food in my mouth, not a roof over my head, .... just for her "opinion". And don't give me that BS that she's a "doctor" and I owe her insane cash because she went to psycho school and got a degree.
So basically, in the last session, she promised me she'd email me the official diagnosis. Since she "couldn't print one out" there in her office, which is a lie, because she has a big expensive office, and she has a printer.
2 weeks go by. No email. No official diagnosis on paper.
Her stupid secretary told me "she (the psychologist) will talk it over with you at your next session".
At $150 I bet she will. I doubt she's going to give it to me in paper now. Now that I see her true nature.
Which is a greedy capitalist spineless-rat.
I don't know what I'm going to do now.
I could just go along with this b***h and pretend she's not assfucking me out of all my money and time.
But I doubt anything will come of it. She's already talking about getting me on meds when I TOLD HER I don't want meds, I've already gone that route. I don't need meds, I need money, support, and for the system to work FOR me, not against me, as it is currently doing.
Your anger is 100% justified, imo.
They ringing that CA$$$$$H register, don't they?
The challenge is that you will not get her cooperation if you show anger, frustration-yes, anger-no.
So here's what to do.
"May I please speak to Dr. Selfish?"
"blah blah"
"It will just take me 1 min. to explain I promise."
"She'll call you back"
"Great."
She calls you.
"Hi Dr. S, I am afraid I must not have been as clear as I had intended. I need a document stating clearly that I have ASD. I'm not looking to have any therapy, I just need an official diagnosis and that is all. When could I drop by to pick up that document?"
"Yes.....details"
or
"Excuses....blah blah blah"
"I have seen you for 4 sessions, has that not been enough time to determine whether I have ASD?"
Be direct, show only minor irritation, and insist.
She knows what her Dx is, believe she knows.
Btw, you have a legal right to access and copy your file if she remains a douche.
Don't get the impression that I'm the type that p*****s out, and just goes along with the latest abuses.
Actually, this is kind of a problem for me. I dislike people (for excellent reasons I may post about later).
I don't like "normal" people. Why ? Easy. If normalized society was peaceful, helpful, and life-affirming, I'd be all for "normal people". Really.
However, the reality is that society and mainstream "normal" society and culture is akin to a meat grinder at your local meat market. And the authorities, the rich, and anyone with real power in the system are coralling the masses to the mouth of this meat grinder, and they expect you to be respectful, be quiet and humble (not them of course, they get to me avaricious, greedy and violent), and don't talk back to anyone (I've had employers literally say this to my face, even before I said anything, before they even knew me, obviously they have no interest in me, who I am, or my personality, just my raw labor for their benefit) so that after they're finished using you up like the piece of meat you are, they just turn the crank and make tasty sausages out of you. Some spice and fennel seeds in those sausages will make them fit to feed their priviledged children with.
If you think this is harsh language, try being pushed from place to place while you're losing money all the while, and having to deal with and live in a society that disdains your very existence, then demands respect, deference, and acquiescence.
I agree.
Trust me I have been there.
They expect you to be grateful during the @$$ pounding as well.
My new psychologist diagnosed me "officially" at my last session with her.
A $150 session no less, and it's taken me a long time to convince my family to pony up this cash for this fucknut of a psychologist. I've had 4 sessions, Which adds up to 700 dollars, cold hard cash. For what ? not gas in my car, not food in my mouth, not a roof over my head, .... just for her "opinion". And don't give me that BS that she's a "doctor" and I owe her insane cash because she went to psycho school and got a degree.
So basically, in the last session, she promised me she'd email me the official diagnosis. Since she "couldn't print one out" there in her office, which is a lie, because she has a big expensive office, and she has a printer.
2 weeks go by. No email. No official diagnosis on paper.
Her stupid secretary told me "she (the psychologist) will talk it over with you at your next session".
At $150 I bet she will. I doubt she's going to give it to me in paper now. Now that I see her true nature.
Which is a greedy capitalist spineless-rat.
I don't know what I'm going to do now.
I could just go along with this b***h and pretend she's not assfucking me out of all my money and time.
But I doubt anything will come of it. She's already talking about getting me on meds when I TOLD HER I don't want meds, I've already gone that route. I don't need meds, I need money, support, and for the system to work FOR me, not against me, as it is currently doing.
So after reading what you had to say I am confused. At first I thought you were denied an autism diagnosis and you kept talking about money like your trying to buy a diagnosis. Than I understood what you meant you want the actual psychological evaluation.
I can understand why your upset, first claim down it will be okay. It took me a while to get my psychological evaluation as well in fact you'll understand why there was a delay when you get it.
A psychological evaluation is a long typed up mini life story about that can be anywhere from seven pages and beyond about you. I know my psychological evaluation needed approval from another doctor which causes a delay. I can understand you need for support as I am trying to get the same exact thing.
Don't get the impression that I'm the type that p*****s out, and just goes along with the latest abuses.
Actually, this is kind of a problem for me. I dislike people (for excellent reasons I may post about later).
I don't like "normal" people. Why ? Easy. If normalized society was peaceful, helpful, and life-affirming, I'd be all for "normal people". Really.
However, the reality is that society and mainstream "normal" society and culture is akin to a meat grinder at your local meat market. And the authorities, the rich, and anyone with real power in the system are coralling the masses to the mouth of this meat grinder, and they expect you to be respectful, be quiet and humble (not them of course, they get to me avaricious, greedy and violent), and don't talk back to anyone (I've had employers literally say this to my face, even before I said anything, before they even knew me, obviously they have no interest in me, who I am, or my personality, just my raw labor for their benefit) so that after they're finished using you up like the piece of meat you are, they just turn the crank and make tasty sausages out of you. Some spice and fennel seeds in those sausages will make them fit to feed their priviledged children with.
If you think this is harsh language, try being pushed from place to place while you're losing money all the while, and having to deal with and live in a society that disdains your very existence, then demands respect, deference, and acquiescence.
It's going to be okay. Just ask her when the psychological evaluation will be ready. Chances are she knows you're being impatient but someone of your diagnosis she most likely understands your frustration and will most likely recommend Mindfulness Activties. Once you have your psychological evaluation you can take that anywhere for the most part and it can be used in lieu bringing more paperwork to your Psychologist to fill out as you'll find out soon your psychological evaluation will be long and very detailed.
The little things you might not have noticed or the silly questions asked, from the way you looked, or responded to the questions or responses given everything was planned and you'll see it all there in your psychological evaluation. I mean when I got my psychological evaluation and sat down and read it I was in shock and did not know what to do for an entire month. It was a little of information and some stuff I had to sit back and think about for myself.
Bottom line, your going to be turning from angry to possibly mind blown once you get it.
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FWIW
My husband had 3 meetings with the psychiatrist/psychologist while they did the ASD testing and interviews.
The report was typed up long before his next appointment, and they would not release it until they personally saw him. So it was the 4th visit to get the actually evaluation in our hands. It took two months to get his official diagnosis of ASD.
It is standard to go over the report with the client. No doctor will give you results without going over them. This include labs, scan results, pathology reports etc...
Your doctor should have told you that she would review the findings with you on your next visit. She sounds sloppy.
I would call a couple days before hand to remind them you want a hard copy of the evaluation.
I wish our evaluation was around $1000K total. Ours was $3K, and we had to pay either cash or credit card. The place took no insurance.
I know you are angry, but yes it can take that many visits and wait time before you officially get diagnosed.