donnie_darko wrote:
I don't think Aspergers can be considered an extremely male brain because if that were true, Aspie males would be "jockish" and stereotypically macho and if anything, most Aspie men seem passive and more feminine than most NT men.
It would also mean Aspie females would tend to be "butch", which also generally isn't true as if anything, many women on the autistic spectrum are very stereotypically "girly". The worst problem with the theory though is just that it assumes that autistic people are uncaring, and that men tend to be uncaring, both of which are false.
In my experience it is Women rather than men who tend to be more aggressive and quick tempered, fortunately they dont tend to have the physical strength to do much damage with their macho lack of self control.
The more "manly" a man, the less he needs to prove himself or get angry as a result of impotence in the way woman do, resorting to shouting and a temper as the only way to get their way.
Manly men are quietly confident, the strong silent type.
I think the male brain theory isn't pointing to the stereotypical violent and out of control male who has the physical strength behind his female emotional thinking, but the male brain is really talking about the way a male brain is more logical than emotional.
It thinks and acts on thoughts rather than acts on impulse and emotion.