my life if chaotic and it isn't going to change anytime soon, I think because I'm on overload my sensory sensitivities have been giving me hell, it's painful and I zone out and my joints ache to be squeezed to relieve the horrible feeling within them.
I don't know how to fix it but I try to do things that are calming for me and go for long walks.
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If you asked someone where self help books were, would they tell you, or would that defeat the purpose?