I'm a diagnosed Aspie but I can read facial expressions - by instinct. When my social worker comes, I like to sit on the same settee as her instead of the one at the otherside of the sitting-room, so that I can see her face better because I like to make eye contact and take in their facial expressions too. That helps a lot for some reason.
I can also read body language, even from a small child. I remember when I was about 6 I was playing in the snow with my cousin (who was about 7), and my mum's sister-in-law came round and said hello to us then knocked on the front door and was chatting to my mum (which I didn't hear their voices or what they were saying). Then moment later I saw the sister-in-law walk back down the garden path in a stiff way, without saying goodbye to us, and there was something in the way she walked that made me look and know there was something wrong. I said to my cousin, ''is she all right?'' and my cousin saw too but said, ''yeah, maybe she didn't see us'', and I was like, ''no, something about the way she walked looked like she was feeling cross or upset about something'' but my cousin was like ''no, she was OK'', and carried on playing and didn't seem to feel concerned at all, but I was. Then soon when we went back inside I realised I was right about the sister-in-law, because my mum was looking upset (which was also what I immediately noticed when I entered the room) and she said that her sister-in-law got the hump over a silly thing with her and stormed away. So I was right about the body language, I knew something was a bit ''off'' and it got me concerned. And that wasn't the only time I remember noticing someone's emotions by ''reading'' their body language. And don't make excuses - I am just an Aspie who can read face expressions and body language and other non-verbal cues. Just a shame I over-read negative body language from strangers since I've been become self-conscious and paranoid.
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