Scenario 1 - I'll be walking along, usually with a mixture of looking around with vague interest and thinking about whatever happens to be on my mind at the time, when someone calls my name. Suddenly there is someone right in front of me, and I have to look for a few seconds before I realise it's someone I see all the time (mostly, my downstairs neighbour). If she hadn't called me by name and thus indicated that she is someone peripherally connected with me, I would likely have walked right past and not seen her at all. Or, perhaps, I have done. This poor woman probably thinks I'm a prick who just ignores her and doesn't bother to say hello, but I truthfully don't see her even if she's right in front of me, until I'm alerted to who she is.
Scenario 2 - someone at a group, again calls me by name and from his manner assumes casual familiarity with me, and I can't remember by looking at him if we had even spoken before.
Scenario 3 - attending another group, I am talking to a woman I don't recall seeing before, until I look at her wrist and see a few strings of thread I recognise and realise I had spoken to her only the previous week, but it's the threads around her wrist, not her face, that reminds me we have encountered each other.
I never thought I had face blindness because I can recognise faces, especially if I had a particular reason to, like the person struck me in a particularly outstanding way. I can connect faces with names in these scenarios and would recall that person's face enough to recognise them again. I don't have any complete inability to recognise people. But this weird disconnect on not immediately seeing or recognising people makes me wonder if it's a mild form of face blindness.
For those of you face blind, can you describe it? Anything like the above? Are you able to recognise people at all, or how does this work?
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Alexithymia - 147 points.
Low-Verbal.