How to stop being a burden to everyone?

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LuluTreeBranch
Emu Egg
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13 Sep 2016, 1:25 pm

I make my mom cry because of the way I am. She doesn't understand why I'm so strange she used to yell at me telling me to go make friends she used to force her friends kids to hang out with me...Needless to say that never worked out.

Family makes comments about my lack of friends and going anywhere like most people my age...maybe I should just go out and sit in the parking lot for a few hours so at least I 'went somewhere.' :lol:

Anyway I doubt anyone reads this but whatever if you do thanks...

how do I stop being such a burden to everyone?



kraftiekortie
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13 Sep 2016, 1:34 pm

Have you thought about going to college?



League_Girl
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13 Sep 2016, 1:41 pm

Do you make your own money, do you go to school, do you contribute to the household, do you go to places by yourself and figure out a way? Those things can help you stop being a burden.


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legalcharaters
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13 Sep 2016, 3:31 pm

My 2 cents.
You owe me. Lol
They just care.
Worry about yourself more.
What do you want to do?
Live life.
Do something.
They will probably complain about what you choose too.
If you think like me, it's kinda a game.
Do something only for them once in a while too.
They love you no matter how weird you are.
Show them you know how to fake it, even if it's dumb.