Why won't some people don't want to talk to me ?

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I do think and feel like I've lost and alienated a considerable amount of ''friends'' and not quite sure why. I don't know if its because they obviously don't know me well, and they blocked or deleted me because of negative messages and statuses and had given up on me due to not taken their advice and just doing it for attention. I seem to take people blocking or deleting me a bit too seriously as though the same as a falling out between friends in real life and it makes feel and look bad and that I am a bad person. I resorted to writing negativity online when I wasn't feeling great and wanted to rant about something or because after having putting positive stuff online like uploading photos of holidays somewhere or some of my personal interests and hobbies as a way a making myself look interesting I still was getting few likes and comments unlike others who got dozens and it was though I wasn't been acknowledged or recognised by people and made feel annoyed at them for it.

I’ve posted it before and I’ll post it again: If you want people to be interested in what you post, then post things that are interesting to them.

No one will put up with someone else’e negativity for very long, unless they somehow derive enjoyment from enabling an even greater outpouring of misery.

If people find what you write in social media interesting, they'll read it and likely follow you. If they don't find it interesting, they won't. That's how it usually goes, aside from some people who feel obligated to follow their friends and comment their posts. Nothing wrong with that either, but just because someone is your friend doesn't mean they have to read or comment what you write. If you write in social media to get attention, write stuff that you think will interest people. If you were wrong about what interests people and still want to try, write about something else next time.