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omid
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04 Feb 2016, 2:06 pm

Hi.
Well there was sort of an "interverntion" (read everyone was shouting at me) about me staring at my family members.
Apparently, after a conversation is finished, I would stay there and look at the other party, as if the conversation is totally not finished, for long long minutes, before I suddenly chose to leave. I'm completely unaware of this, but I suppose they are telling the truth because 2 people are saying this (my mother and my sister) and they are SERIOUSLY P***SED.

I'm going to be more mindfull about this and try to counteract, but I'm absolutely wondering why the hell I would do such thing, and WHY THE HELL I WOULD NOT NOTICE??!?!??!

Do you do this? is this something Aspies or people on the spectrum do? or is it rather a schizo thing? WTF is this? my father does the same.

thanks for reading.


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omid
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07 Feb 2016, 6:19 am

anyone? I just figured a way. I told them to tell me when they are finished and have nothing more to say so I can go. It's somewhat working.
But I'm still wondering what kind of problem this is. I used search function but I can't find anything.
I must add that I can't look stranger's in the eyes at all. even for 1 ms.


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Aspie score: 131 of 200
NT score: 34 of 200
Possibly Aspie (diagnosed by an autism expert, doc moves abroad, forced to change docs and all say it's schizophrenia NOS or schizo-affective disorde or personality disorders. initial doc was a colleague of uncle Simon btw. you do the math.). (edit: by Uncle Simon I mean Simon Baron Cohen. Just to clear things up.)