It's called Executive Function Disorder (EFD), and is fairly common among those on the Autism spectrum. Unfortunately, I am one of those with a lifelong, chronic, severe case of this. My place is always a mess, and I have trouble keeping up with paperwork, so I keep getting into trouble over these thing. I've tried planners/notes, but it doesn't help in my case, as I am likely to lose the notes in some pile of mess or other somewhere in my home.
Wish you better luck, though.
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