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08 Apr 2016, 9:47 pm

There was a thread entitled, "Temple's book "THE LOVING PUSH" on Autists who DON'T work."

Now it's gone. What happened?



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08 Apr 2016, 9:49 pm

Maybe accidental during the spam purge?


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08 Apr 2016, 9:51 pm

Yeah, that's what I would guess, too. It's happened before.



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08 Apr 2016, 10:03 pm

btbnnyr wrote:
Maybe accidental during the spam purge?

I was interested in reading your morning post on this topic.

I had posted the following last night.

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I think the ideas make sense, and describe in general how my parents raised me to be independent adult.

Ditto.

My parents coerced me into doing many things that I otherwise would have never done. It certainly could have been handled in a better way (as many aspects of my childhood were unpleasant). With that being said, without this guidance, I probably would have never become independent.


By the way, I still can't understand why anyone would think Temple's advice is a bad idea.



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08 Apr 2016, 10:14 pm

I think what I posted this morning was about parents teaching skills early on and being encouraging to build strengths early on, and these giving children more ability to learn and practice work arounds for problems of autism as adults.

Then, in the afternoon, someone said I was focused too much on attitude instead of specific steps to do things, and I posted that having positive attitude lets me take the steps to learn how to do things, like figuring out the specific steps by researching on my own, asking others, working on something, showing to others and getting feedback, getting general direction from others in the beginning, etc. Having negative attitude that I can't proceed without knowing all the specific steps in the beginning reduces or stops learning and can explain failures in employment or other pursuits.


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09 Apr 2016, 12:12 am

btbnnyr wrote:
Maybe accidental during the spam purge?


This happens from time to time as the spam removal is a manual rather than purely electronic process that we do as fast as we can. The thread is back.



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10 Apr 2016, 10:04 pm

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I think what I posted this morning was about parents teaching skills early on and being encouraging to build strengths early on, and these giving children more ability to learn and practice work arounds for problems of autism as adults.

This was my experience as well. I can easily see how people, who didn't receive that "loving push" as children, would be at a significant disadvantage as adults.