I've read that some people describe autism as extreme masculinity, and there are indeed some traits associated with both, but I find this viewpoint to be offensive and inaccurate for the following reasons:
Autistic traits that are not "masculine"
1. Narrow interests
2. Sensitivity to touch/other sensory issues (indeed, this is sometimes seen as unmanly)
3. Difficulty controlling emotional reactions
"Masculine" traits that are not autistic
1. Interest in physical activity - while this is not inconsistent with being autistic, if autism was hypermasculine you would see this more.
2. Violence
3. Assertiveness and self-confidence (not all autistic people are high in it)
Reasons why this is offensive:
1. It reduces autism to what NT's call "poor social skills", which is ableist. There is much more to what we are than the inability to read emotions.
2. It erases female and non-binary autistics/Aspies, and is insulting to Aspies like me who are on the male side of the gender spectrum yet are still slightly androgynous.
3. It is born out of the reactionary myth that there is a "war on boys." I have seen people say things as ridiculous as that autism does not exist but it's merely a way of pathologizing masculinity. I don't need to explain why that's wrong.
I do acknowledge that most feminists are NT's and as such may say and do ableist things against us because of their own neuronormative perspective. But that does not make autism equivalent to hypermasculinity.
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Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 130 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 77 of 200
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MBTI type: INTJ
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