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06 May 2007, 3:10 pm

first of all, I just saw this pic, the first thing i thought was ASPIE
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here's my aspie incedent
my parents and i were on a weekend vacation to a small town called warsaw indiana. as we were walking i was quacking to the ducks to try and get them quack back, my dad told me to quack lower because a squeaky quack didn't sound quite right, so i squatted and quacked

what are some of your incedints?


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06 May 2007, 3:12 pm

8) A few days ago I was with a few people during break at school. My friend Josh then tells me,'We're going to have a staring contest!' then looks at me straight in the eye. I obviously look away because it got me really uncomfortable. So I lost in under 2 seconds. 8)



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06 May 2007, 3:15 pm

Starbuline wrote:
8) A few days ago I was with a few people during break at school. My friend Josh then tells me,'We're going to have a staring contest!' then looks at me straight in the eye. I obviously look away because it got me really uncomfortable. So I lost in under 2 seconds. 8)


Did he REALLY like you? What did he win? :wink:

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06 May 2007, 3:25 pm

The most recent one was somebody asked me how I found the martial arts class. I said I'd been there before.



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06 May 2007, 3:29 pm

Starbuline wrote:
8) A few days ago I was with a few people during break at school. My friend Josh then tells me,'We're going to have a staring contest!' then looks at me straight in the eye. I obviously look away because it got me really uncomfortable. So I lost in under 2 seconds. 8)

I did some excursuses on it I can now do around 5 second comfortably. Yes I know what you mean.



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06 May 2007, 3:31 pm

I was in a really interesting conversation on the phone with my boyfriend and as soon as he switched topic of what to talk about, I spaced out. I still have absolutely no clue what he said, but he was apparantly happy to finally talk about something other than all of this. He asked what I thought of it all and I just responded "yep". I'm gonna be bummin if he asks me about anything that he talked about when I see him later :oops:



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06 May 2007, 3:36 pm

0_equals_true wrote:
Starbuline wrote:
8) A few days ago I was with a few people during break at school. My friend Josh then tells me,'We're going to have a staring contest!' then looks at me straight in the eye. I obviously look away because it got me really uncomfortable. So I lost in under 2 seconds. 8)

I did some excursuses on it I can now do around 5 second comfortably. Yes I know what you mean.


Trick is stare just SLIGHTLY off to the side, enough to not be looking at their eyes but have them fooled that you are.

I guess mine would be the sensory overload I had a few days back.



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06 May 2007, 3:37 pm

I was travelling home by train from work two nights ago, and got stranded at a station, so now I'm going to be so late home. When other trains on another platform went past, the more stressed I got, the more the noise made me anxious and the more I could not stand it. After 20 minuets I had to cover my ears so as not to go into a meltdown each time a train went through the station.
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06 May 2007, 4:14 pm

agentcyclosarin wrote:
0_equals_true wrote:
Starbuline wrote:
8) A few days ago I was with a few people during break at school. My friend Josh then tells me,'We're going to have a staring contest!' then looks at me straight in the eye. I obviously look away because it got me really uncomfortable. So I lost in under 2 seconds. 8)

I did some excursuses on it I can now do around 5 second comfortably. Yes I know what you mean.


Trick is stare just SLIGHTLY off to the side, enough to not be looking at their eyes but have them fooled that you are.

I guess mine would be the sensory overload I had a few days back.


excursuses ?? :oops: exercises. Actually before I couldn't stare slightly to the side because it is still in view and hurt my eyes



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06 May 2007, 4:56 pm

My meltdown last night, I guess, when my laptop wouldn't connect to the net and I was still talking to my friend.
I went from almost calm to scale 10 on the Richter scale rage, with head punching and hitting things and cursing.



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06 May 2007, 5:47 pm

For me it would be taking the train back from work on Friday. It was really crowded so I had to take whatever seat was left (I have a health problem that means I collapse if I stand for more than a few minutes).

I was sat next to a guy who was watching a programme containing men. He seemed to be stroking a certain area of his body. At first I thought I must just be imagining it, or maybe he had a itch or something.

After a while, it became apparent that he really was doing what I thought he was doing and not just scratching an itch. He then started making noises!

I panicked. I got up and tried to find the train guard. I had a complete panic attack and kept asking other passengers if they'd seen the guard but they hadn't and I was shaking by this time and people were laughing at me.

I'm sorry, I didn't realise an autistic person having a panic attack was supposed to be funny.

I eventually found the guard. No seats were available so I just sat on the floor.

I phoned the rail company and complained, but I doubt they'll do anything.



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06 May 2007, 6:05 pm

girl7000 wrote:
For me it would be taking the train back from work on Friday. It was really crowded so I had to take whatever seat was left (I have a health problem that means I collapse if I stand for more than a few minutes).

I was sat next to a guy who was watching a programme containing men. He seemed to be stroking a certain area of his body. At first I thought I must just be imagining it, or maybe he had a itch or something.

After a while, it became apparent that he really was doing what I thought he was doing and not just scratching an itch. He then started making noises!

I panicked. I got up and tried to find the train guard. I had a complete panic attack and kept asking other passengers if they'd seen the guard but they hadn't and I was shaking by this time and people were laughing at me.

I'm sorry, I didn't realise an autistic person having a panic attack was supposed to be funny.

I eventually found the guard. No seats were available so I just sat on the floor.

I phoned the rail company and complained, but I doubt they'll do anything.


and they say Aspies lack empathy. Did you know it is normal human behaviour to avoid or stare at people who are in distress? I remember these woman on the train she was crying. Everyone was just looking the other way. I can understand this. It can be annoying, you don't know what to do. I got her a tissue. Surely these NT people would have been able to deal with that better. Empathy is bogus.

How amy people rubber-neck car crashes and film atrosities? Is that empathy?



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06 May 2007, 6:12 pm

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and they say Aspies lack empathy. Did you know it is normal human behaviour to avoid or stare at people who are in distress? I remember these woman on the train she was crying. Everyone was just looking the other way. I can understand this. It can be annoying, you don't know what to do. I got her a tissue. Surely these NT people would have been able to deal with that better. Empathy is bogus.

How amy people rubber-neck car crashes and film atrosities? Is that empathy?


When we do things like this it isn't for regocnition or to be part of whatever like it is for NT's a good amount of the time, when we show care in whichever way it is the individual AS shows it as we all have different ways it is pure and true because we do not (for the most part) lie or see the reason of doing something for the sake of doing it or for social demand.



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06 May 2007, 6:26 pm

agentcyclosarin wrote:
0_equals_true wrote:

and they say Aspies lack empathy. Did you know it is normal human behaviour to avoid or stare at people who are in distress? I remember these woman on the train she was crying. Everyone was just looking the other way. I can understand this. It can be annoying, you don't know what to do. I got her a tissue. Surely these NT people would have been able to deal with that better. Empathy is bogus.

How amy people rubber-neck car crashes and film atrosities? Is that empathy?


When we do things like this it isn't for regocnition or to be part of whatever like it is for NT's a good amount of the time, when we show care in whichever way it is the individual AS shows it as we all have different ways it is pure and true because we do not (for the most part) lie or see the reason of doing something for the sake of doing it or for social demand.


Empathy is fantasy. It is bogus in that a person is deluded into thinking they know what the other person is experiencing. AS have fantasy too. Even about knowing about other people. It is only because we think differently that we are told we lack it. Yes NTs need recognition of their ‘good’ deeds. I did not tell anyone about this, until a relevant conversation came up.



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06 May 2007, 6:31 pm

Plus you can only act on what you know. Yes. Peoples problems can be annoying, you don't know how to act or realte. So what? Isn't it worse to say you know when you don't?



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06 May 2007, 6:44 pm

Here's an edited version of something I previously posted about last weekend. I think it responds to the thread:

I was with my wife and children at a hotel with a buffet dining room last weekend. All that the "servers" have to do is to bring you soft drinks and coffee and pick up your dirty dishes so they don't clutter the table while you get more food. Usually they do this really well.

But Saturday evening, our server was a young man who wasn't picking up the dishes at all. They were just piling up. I asked him about it once and he picked up a few, but, then, didn't follow up. I mentioned it again, and he said, "Just let me know." I said that "I shouldn't have to." Normally, the servers very efficiently keep the tables clear for you.

Then, I said, "Look, brining out drinks and picking up the dishes is pretty much the whole job, isn't it?" After that, he became too good at it, going from table to table trying to take dishes that people were eating from.

I later told my wife what I said, and she told me that sometimes I really say things that are hurtful. I hadn't meant to be. I didn't know how else to explain the situation to him.

By the way,. reagarding the man on the train...your panic attack was certainly less inappropriate than the actions of the man you had sat next to.