What I mean is, people kind of like Daniel Tammet or Jacob Barnett:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uq-FOOQ1TpE
not necessarily with their ability peak in math/science, but in any subject.
In almost all the Asperger groups I've been to, I don't really feel like I fit in that well with the huge majority of other people on the spectrum, and I feel it very much has to do with this issue. In other words, their "peaks" aren't as high, and/or their "troughs" aren't as low, with the combined result that their childhood development was less uneven than mine. A lot of them have "normal people interests" like movies, music, and "hanging out", but just are more awkward.
I spend a lot of my days wondering where all the other adults are who can write symphonies, paint beautiful works of art, or do advanced math but have never had a close friendship in their lives. Particularly I wonder where the women with this uneven development are.
If this profile fits you, please stand up and be counted! I'm looking to maybe get a Skype group together to talk about these issues, to feel less alone in our highly atypical pattern of life experiences.