ToughDiamond wrote:
According to Wikipedia it's defined as "the unsolicited repetition of vocalizations made by another person." Also "it is estimated that up to 75% of persons on the autism spectrum have exhibited echolalia"
So I suppose I do it a bit, though it's not entirely involuntary and therefore I don't have it in the profound form, it seems. All that happens in my case is that if somebody asks me a question or makes a statement that's difficult for me to grasp (on account of its complexity or lack of clarity), I will repeat the question aloud, to help me focus on it better and fathom its meaning, or if the words don't seem to make sense, to lay them out in front of us so we can see what's going on and put it right. My ex would often say things to me that I couldn't fathom, and would also get annoyed when I repeated them back to her like that. She seemed to think it was a personal attack. But her grammar was often poor and I didn't know what else to do, apart from pretending to understand, which seems a pretty stupid thing to do. And for some reason people have very often reacted with impatience and annoyance when I've simply said "I don't understand," as if it's a huge effort for them to try again, so I was hoping that by repeating the dodgy syntax back to them, they'd at least see that maybe it was their fault.
Look up "delayed echolalia." Its when you hear someone say something, it sticks in your head, and days or weeks later, you repeat it.
But your examples are not echolalia, since you are doing it to prove a point. What you are doing is mirroring. You're "reflecting" back to them what they've heard. Done right, this is a great social skill. Done poorly it just makes you look like a douche.