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19 Aug 2016, 8:43 pm

my mom says i dont

but
my teacher
said my tone wus
almost at inappropriate
not just robotic tone

edit:
my mom says
its not
wut
u
said
its
how
u
said
it


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19 Aug 2016, 8:55 pm

^^^what exactly did to you say to whom?



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19 Aug 2016, 8:58 pm

auntblabby wrote:
^^^what exactly did to you say to whom?

he thought
i
wus
arguing
with
him

and
didnt
even know
my
tone
wus
at inappropriate


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19 Aug 2016, 9:00 pm

random1 wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
^^^what exactly did to you say to whom?

he thought I wus arguing with him and didn't even know my tone wus at inappropriate


mebbe HE was the dense one. :idea:



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19 Aug 2016, 10:03 pm

Would your mom ask him for more specifics about what he meant by "tone"?

You could too, of course. But some adults tend to give more specifics to other adults... almost like they think asking questions to get clarification on what they mean is being insolent or disrespectful.



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19 Aug 2016, 11:06 pm

ThatsWhatSheSaid wrote:
Would your mom ask him for more specifics about what he meant by "tone"?

You could too, of course. But some adults tend to give more specifics to other adults... almost like they think asking questions to get clarification on what they mean is being insolent or disrespectful.


hoo
else has
dis problem


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19 Aug 2016, 11:09 pm

random1 wrote:
ThatsWhatSheSaid wrote:
Would your mom ask him for more specifics about what he meant by "tone"?

You could too, of course. But some adults tend to give more specifics to other adults... almost like they think asking questions to get clarification on what they mean is being insolent or disrespectful.


hoo else has dis problem

I have this problem which is the #1 reason why i'm a hermit now. :alien:



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19 Aug 2016, 11:16 pm

but
wut
do u guys
think
bout tone of voice in
general


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19 Aug 2016, 11:19 pm

random1 wrote:
but wut do u guys think bout tone of voice in general


my tone of voice is aspie-typical in terms of "odd prosody" and it throws some people off who don't pay sufficient attention to my WORDS.



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20 Aug 2016, 12:32 am

What course material are you being taught, and are you able to show proficiency in that field of discussion.

You can have body odor. Your shoes may be on the wrong feet. But, there is no right or wrong way to say a thing, assuming that you are not learning to be a public speaker, as in some drama class, or are not being overtly disrespectful.

Although it is probably impossible for us to know, for certain, your critics might just be poserly, controlling, or officious.

You might legitimately be awkward, but that is your right, afaic.



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20 Aug 2016, 4:36 am

friedmacguffins wrote:
What course material are you being taught, and are you able to show proficiency in that field of discussion.

You can have body odor. Your shoes may be on the wrong feet. But, there is no right or wrong way to say a thing, assuming that you are not learning to be a public speaker, as in some drama class, or are not being overtly disrespectful.

Although it is probably impossible for us to know, for certain, your critics might just be poserly, controlling, or officious.

You might legitimately be awkward, but that is your right, afaic.

dont get it


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20 Aug 2016, 7:00 am

It's hard to say. Maybe you sounded angry without realizing it, or seemed disrespectful somehow?



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20 Aug 2016, 7:26 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's hard to say. Maybe you sounded angry without realizing it, or seemed disrespectful somehow?

wuts
a
example of inappropriate tone
can u giv
won


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20 Aug 2016, 7:43 am

My brother constantly says I sound like a robot, and I insist I should have been born an android.



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20 Aug 2016, 7:44 am

random1 wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's hard to say. Maybe you sounded angry without realizing it, or seemed disrespectful somehow?

wuts
a
example of inappropriate tone
can u giv
won




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20 Aug 2016, 8:06 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
random1 wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's hard to say. Maybe you sounded angry without realizing it, or seemed disrespectful somehow?

wuts
a
example of inappropriate tone
can u giv
won



stil
no
inappropriate
tone


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