Can't think when my surroundings are too loud

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Greetings. So today, in my math class, there were periods where people would talk a lot and very loudly. For me, and I don't know if it's an autistic thing, but I can't think at all. My mind, in my opinion, is being overstimulated. When I want (or have to) think and it is loud around me, I have to plug my ears and say my thoughts out loud until I can process it. I know it's socially not acceptable to do this, but I can't help it because I'm trying to answer the math question like my teacher wants us to, but I can't think when there are too many people talking loudly. I did on the first day of school tell my math teacher that I don't like loud noises, not that I can't think if it's too loud. I am also beside the door, which is worse because the grade nines always wait like 10-20 minutes before the next class outside the door and they are really loud too. And I don't want to move because I want to be able to leave quickly and non-distractingly if I am having a panic attack. I am thinking if I should wear an earplug on the ear facing the door so it's quieter, but I'm afraid that I will mishear what my teacher is saying because I mishear things on a regular basis. My other thought is that I wear headphones, but I want to make sure I don't miss anything the teacher is saying. So does anyone have any suggestions for me? Any are appreciated. Also, talk about if you have the same thing as me, as in you can't think when it is too loud.

If I am gonna focus on something (reading, writing, listening, math) I need silence. I'm not sure if this is an ASD thing, as I've known others who have had the same problem who I very much doubt are aspies.
This wasn't a problem at all in elementary or junior high school. Either I didn't have the problem back then, or I just didn't focus all that much. But I've had since adulthood, which I discovered when I tried to go back to school, and also when focusing on anything like reading or writing something, amplified if it's something I find difficult.

Maybe you could try talking to your teacher and explain to them how hard it is for you and explain your concern about missing out on what they're saying. If the teacher is aware, they can make sure to include you and you can use earplug without consequences. If your teacher is unreasonable you should probably talk to your parents or a counselor in school if there is one.

Is there another room you could go to so you can study in peace? That would make the teacher have to go pick you up though, so earplugs or noise cancelling headphones would be better.

Those are the only solutions I can think of.

I have no solutions but I just wanted to say I'm exactly the same. I cannot think straight at all when there's noise and chaos around me. Noise stresses me out even when I'm not needing to concentrate on anything, so all the more when I do have to focus. It's a cause of meltdown for me if I'm unable to alter the situation.

Yes. I am like this too. I can't focus when there is loud or when there is a distracting sound in the background especially when I have to read or solve math problems because they involve verbal thinking. But I am still relatively good with focusing on tasks involving spacial/visual thinking(putting something together based on picture instruction, reading charts etc.) when there is noise, unless I am already overwhelmed. I believe it just has to do with my auditory processing disorder - when there is noise I can't understand speech therefore I can't understand my verbal thoughts too since they are also sounds.

Basically when there is a lot of noise my whole auditory sense gets clogged but other senses stay intact unless brain gets clogged as well. Brain clogging happens when I am forced to use a clogged sense (listen hard or use verbal thoughts) for too long. If I don't have use it (it's nothing important and the noise isn't too distracting) I can just cut off the clogged sense till environment is calm again, therefore preventing my brain from being clogged.
Stimming helps directing focus from the clogged sense to different one.
Also stopping one auditory activity helps - If I write and my parents start being noisy I stop writing and focus on what they say while waiting for them to stop because if I try to write while they make distracting sounds my brain gets clogged. Its frustrating because it prevents me from doing what I want and forces me to listen to the boring stuff they do but at least I don't get overwhelmed and I can return to what I was doing as soon as they stop. If I tried to write while they make sounds my brain would get clogged by the clogged hearing sense and I wouldn't be able to do anything for a while even after they stopped.

Ear plugs don't work for me.
I once tested, literally, on the verge of superhuman hearing.

I once heard someone describe this kind of thing as
"having a hearing aid with the volume turned up full blast
so that you can't fully concentrate on the person talking directly in front of you
because you're hearing all the background noises ...
like a pin dropping out in the hallway or way across the room."

One reason maybe that I get headaches and keep aspirin nearby.

Like anything else, keen hearing has both its advantages and disadvantages.

But yeah, I prefer peace and quiet.
Most of my vacations end up being way out in the country
far away from cars and people,
where there's not even cell phone reception.

I can very much relate.

I'd explain it to your teacher in a way that makes it clear that what you have going on goes beyond a disliking of noise. Really, if you could print out or email your post to your teacher, that could be an option as well. You present very clearly here how it impacts you as well as your concerns that you do not want to miss out on hearing what is going on in class.

I'm curious to, you say it is a math class... I don't know how you do in math or what your learning style is, but for myself, I always found the words teachers spoke in math classes to be less effective to my own learning than seeing examples being worked out... point being, I didn't need to hear my teachers to learn. I understand teachers like to ask students about the problems to make sure they are understanding, but it's not always necessary if there is time in the class for individual students to, for example, approach the teacher on a one to one basis as needed. If that makes sense...

Really though, I think the best thing is to just mention this to your teacher. If you struggle with feeling on the spot, make a list or note or something before hand, so you already know what you need to say is being said. If not, maybe just get to class a little early so you can have time to talk before other people are filing in and settling down?

I also have that problem. I have a very hard time focusing if there's a bunch of people talking around me.

I suffer from the same problem, not to mention that Mathematics is not one of my strengths...

I'm sure that if you talk to your teacher, you both can work out some accommodations that allow you to focus better in the classroom.

Personally, one of mine was going into a separate room whenever we were having a test and stuff.

I have such super hearing that even a soft buzzing noise from the air conditioning [which isn't even on] causes me to sleep poorly. Plus my fridge is super noisy, yet even listening to music while wearing headphones and a dishcloth around my head doesn't help much.