what's the friendliest place you've been?

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fifasy
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16 Sep 2017, 4:37 pm

I went on vacation to the USA and the people in Atlanta Georgia were so nice in the airport I was changing at. Never met people so warm and down to earth. I still felt autistic but they were easier to talk to than others I've met,

I assume it must be the dfamous southern hospitality!



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16 Sep 2017, 4:45 pm

The smoking area at work is quite a friendly place, first thing in a mornings.

Yes I normally stand there for a good 30 minutes chatting away with people who belong to other companies within our building. I don't even know their names.

I think the anonymity must be the key there.


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17 Sep 2017, 4:36 am

I regret posting this topic delete please



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17 Sep 2017, 9:11 am

This *is* kind of a controversial topic, I wouldn't of had the courage to post it. You have balls of steel!



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17 Sep 2017, 3:14 pm

Protestant churches. Frankly, I stopped going to church because I was sick of overly friendly people with no respect for privacy, personal space, or a general wish to be left alone. ;)

fifasy wrote:
I assume it must be the dfamous southern hospitality!

Having lived in the South, it's fake. There's a saying, "'Bless your heart' is Southern for 'eff you.'"


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17 Sep 2017, 3:34 pm

I liked Yorkshire in Northern England when I visited earlier this year on a field trip. Didn't have too much time to hang about and chat but there were quite a few students local to the area with us and they were all friendly when we gathered in the tiny on-site bar in the evenings.
I was extremely strung out with nerves for the whole 3 days of my stay, so was expecting a lot of awkwardness conversing with the others, but it wasn't too bad, even when it must have been obvious I was from the 'South'. The locals in the nearest village were more of the reasonable/helpful variety than what is often the case in many parts of Essex, where I'm from.


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17 Sep 2017, 4:07 pm

Broomhall in Sheffield, England in the late 1970s and early 1980s. I think it was partly my own doing, as I'd got it into my head that the inhabitants were a cut above a lot of the people I'd previously met, so I tended to be friendly towards them, and naturally they reciprocated.
Other places I've found people friendly have generally been out in the countryside, so I guess low population density is an important factor, though it's also possible to come up against a small-minded, small-town mentality where they seem to look down on anybody not quite on their wavelength. I've seen that happening though I haven't suffered it personally.



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18 Sep 2017, 6:06 am

Disney World back in 1992.



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18 Sep 2017, 6:15 am

It's a nice thread, and you had a nice experience in Atlanta.

Why delete the thread?



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18 Sep 2017, 6:16 am

AspieSingleDad wrote:
This *is* kind of a controversial topic, I wouldn't of had the courage to post it. You have balls of steel!

wat?



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18 Sep 2017, 6:19 am

Zaarin wrote:

fifasy wrote:
I assume it must be the dfamous southern hospitality!

Having lived in the South, it's fake. There's a saying, "'Bless your heart' is Southern for 'eff you.'"

Bless your heart and have nice day mr Zaarin! :D
as for the subject...
let me think.... the most friendly place was...The same South yeap .
if your not p**** you can feel great here!



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18 Sep 2017, 4:39 pm

First mental hospital.



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18 Sep 2017, 5:28 pm

Western United States (not California). I had a flat tire break somewhere in the cornfields in Kansas. A farmer picked me up, drove an hour to the nearest garage, waited for the guy to fix it, after business hours, and drove me back. Later that trip the stupid car broke down a local church took me in, put me in a guest house, and paid to have the car fixed at a garage the next day. People in general were very nice there. Polite, kind, and friendly. Nothing like the east coast.



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18 Sep 2017, 7:06 pm

India. I didn't know how to smile before I went there.
Before that, Colorado.



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18 Sep 2017, 8:26 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Why delete the thread?

I was wondering that too. Anybody?



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18 Sep 2017, 8:51 pm

Not New York, but I love it anyway.