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10 Oct 2016, 8:26 pm

You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you


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10 Oct 2016, 8:32 pm

No, I don't think so.



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10 Oct 2016, 8:41 pm

TheAP wrote:
No, I don't think so.

What do u mean?


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10 Oct 2016, 8:43 pm

I don't think you're stupid.



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10 Oct 2016, 8:45 pm

No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.



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10 Oct 2016, 8:55 pm

SBO_ReachOut2Me wrote:
No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.


Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


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10 Oct 2016, 8:56 pm

Berabara wrote:
You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you


I don't think it's possible to tell by reading posts if any member here has Aspergers, you only have their word.
By reading your posts I cant find any reason why you would lie. I believe what you say.
You don't seem stupid either. If you were to start a poll and ask members if they hated you , I bet you would find that the vast majority of members don't hate you and if any member said they did it would be a lie ( there's a**holes in all walks of life ).


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10 Oct 2016, 8:57 pm

Berabara wrote:
Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


Don't feel bad about that. I struggle with meltdowns too. Your mom shouldn't have called you stupid.



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10 Oct 2016, 9:00 pm

Berabara wrote:
Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


If you do something stupid it doesn't make you stupid. I don't think I'm stupid but I have punched a brick wall in anger and fractured my hand.


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10 Oct 2016, 9:03 pm

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Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


Don't feel bad about that. I struggle with meltdowns too. Your mom shouldn't have called you stupid.


Yeah they are horrible it i have sore feet and fingers i didnt know but didnt scream during meltdown just swearing crying hitting on doors i saw blood not much i dont want do it again


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Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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10 Oct 2016, 9:09 pm

(hugs) Meltdowns are awful. I hope you never have to go through that again.



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10 Oct 2016, 9:11 pm

Berabara wrote:
SBO_ReachOut2Me wrote:
No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.


Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


Maybe she was just bothered that you hurt yourself. And maybe she meant she thinks you did something stupid instead of that you are stupid. There is a difference.



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10 Oct 2016, 9:38 pm

I hope none of my replies on your threads have ever given you cause to think so. No, I don't think you are stupid. I think you are a brave person, actually, who shows a lot of courage. I feel quite humbled by you given the barriers and prejudice that you have probably had to face in your life. You are a very impressive person, I think. You impress me. I very much doubt I would have been able to match your achievements had I been born profoundly deaf from the beginning of my life. You are one of the people who actually inspires me here.



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10 Oct 2016, 10:00 pm

EzraS wrote:
Berabara wrote:
SBO_ReachOut2Me wrote:
No I don't & I like your mind. Your mind is good; not stupid. Stupid would be bad if it were existent.


Well yesterday i had bad day i kicked the brick hurt my self and i hit doors while crying and very angry swearing my self alone mum wasnt home so she thinks.im stupid that i kick the brick i told her thanks for telling me stupid


Maybe she was just bothered that you hurt yourself. And maybe she meant she thinks you did something stupid instead of that you are stupid. There is a difference.

Shes upset and she rang alec check me out see if im ok but im ok now but i didnt want to do that again so are you saying im stupid if u think im going ignore you i feel bad i dont understand what ur saying he put bandages on my finger apparently im stupid because u said that


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also have Anxiety Disorder, OCD

Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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10 Oct 2016, 10:06 pm

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Berabara wrote:
You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you


I don't think it's possible to tell by reading posts if any member here has Aspergers, you only have their word.
By reading your posts I cant find any reason why you would lie. I believe what you say.
You don't seem stupid either. If you were to start a poll and ask members if they hated you , I bet you would find that the vast majority of members don't hate you and if any member said they did it would be a lie ( there's a**holes in all walks of life ).

Mum wasnt happy that i hurt my self but she ask me go do mow the lawn and i said no and then she said shes going turn internet off but i didnt care about internet turn off after that i got confused all in my brain feels like storm fire and i dont know what to say but feels like im stupid


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You are very likely neurodiverse (Aspie)

Diagnosis Asperger's Syndrome back in 2005
also have Anxiety Disorder, OCD

Severe to Profound on my left ear and have cochlear implant on Right ear i'm Deaf


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10 Oct 2016, 10:31 pm

Berabara wrote:
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Berabara wrote:
You think i dont have aspergers it means im stupid everyone hates me i will going ignore you


I don't think it's possible to tell by reading posts if any member here has Aspergers, you only have their word.
By reading your posts I cant find any reason why you would lie. I believe what you say.
You don't seem stupid either. If you were to start a poll and ask members if they hated you , I bet you would find that the vast majority of members don't hate you and if any member said they did it would be a lie ( there's a**holes in all walks of life ).

Mum wasnt happy that i hurt my self but she ask me go do mow the lawn and i said no and then she said shes going turn internet off but i didnt care about internet turn off after that i got confused all in my brain feels like storm fire and i dont know what to say but feels like im stupid


What you describe does not sound like stupidity to me. Confusion and not knowing what to say does not indicate stupidity. You sound like you have a lot of problems but being stupid is not one of them. You have to try and stop thinking this , its not true.


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