amal wrote:
To clarify - (1) or all of (2) together.
Whichever it is, its not fun, but it seems to me like trying to build a tower of anything-but-autism-because-you-cant-possibly-have-that is not helpful if it is (1).
I am sure a doctor might give a diagnoses of ASD to someone if they had all those components because it's easier than carrying all those labels making it look like you have lot of stuff wrong with you or because you need the same amount of support an ASD person needs and all those other labels alone will not give you the help to a degree you need. I do hear you need to have a enough components for have an ASD and I do think ASD is a list of conditions anyway. But they might not need autism therapy, only therapy for anxiety and OCD, occupational therapy, and stuff like that to improve their symptoms and just as long as there is no anxiety, the ASD is "gone." The rest that are associated with ASD might be part of your personality because they wouldn't cause you any impairments unless there is anxiety. I guess the bonus here for all this is you don't have to worry about any autism treatments and be expected to change but the con part of it is your symptoms wouldn't matter and you would be expected to get over it and stop it and be expected to control it at all times and you are expected to be NT or else they might think you are trying to be AS. But then again even some ASD people also struggle with their symptoms because they are also expected to be NT and their symptoms also wouldn't matter if their family is in denial or not understanding because you look normal and seem normal.
Now my question for everyone here is, do you think these people can still attend an ASD group or would that be harmful to the others with it?
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.