I don't stim.. Is that abnormal?

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I keep reading about stimming.. I'm not a person that stims at all.. I do sometimes rub my face or rub my hands together if I'm excited but only on occasion.. I don't have make any odd hand motions or do anything too untoward or obvious..

Is this odd?

I didn't think I stimmed until I sat down and monitored myself over several days. I discovered that I twiddle my thumbs; stroke my thumbnails; tickled the left-hand side of my neck with fingers, pens, screwdrivers, e-cigs etc (I can't stand anyone else soft-touching me though); rolled a ball of blu-tack around in my fingers (until it got sticky - yuck!); play with my e-cig or pens. My favourite though is stretching. I love stretching my entire body and do it at least 20 times a day including at work - it feels SO good!

I now have a black stressball to squish and roll instead of that nasty ball of blu-tack and a Tangle Relax Therapy with which I love to form shapes and also to bundle up and squeeze.

So maybe you do have a stim, you just don't know it yet?

If true, this will be uncommon, but not anormal.
I myself don't (visibly) stim either, but i have trained myself not to. I do different things, like wiggling my toes, or even imagining myself moving around, as if stimming. This is sufficient for me, except when i really need to focus or burn off some energy

I don't stim either in a general sense. I have a "drummer's tick". If I get some nervous energy I will revert to playing drums with my fingers or on my lap with my hands. But being a drummer, nobody suspects anything.

Is listening to the same song over and over again..considered stimming...or staring at a wall , celling ,folliage and the likes for long periods of time because you see a pattern and don't want to move or even blink because you're afraid that you'll lose that pattern considered stimming..?or just pure entertainment... And if it is ....then..it doesn't have to be a movement to be considered stimming...