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MaxE
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26 Nov 2016, 9:23 am

All of us have been exposed to incessant hand-wringing over how the advent of mobile technology has destroyed interpersonal relations.

The usual complaint is that people sitting together for a meal or on a sofa watching television are looking at their mobile instead of interacting with each other or engaging in a healthy shared activity such as TV watching.

If you think about it, this is a perfectly normal thing for a person on the spectrum to do. Better than staring down at your plate while people ignore you.

Does anybody here feel a twinge of resentment when confronted with this sort of "outrage"?

[edit] Regarding the dinner table scenario, my typical experience has always been that I am expected to display rapt fascination in conversations in which I have not felt welcome to actively participate.


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26 Nov 2016, 5:13 pm

I find the virulent spread of smartphone hypnosis through more or less every population and demographic it touches interesting, in that I see it as a sign that the human probably has an innate, powerful urge to avoid immediate reality when given the means, at pretty much any given free moment. I do it, but I do still find it repulsive. But not from the point of view of "people just don't know how to communicate any more!". I'm not at all convinced that people ever communicated meaningfully to any greater extent anyway. I do find the sight of the majority of people performing identical, specific acts on probably identical, specific corners of the internet everywhere I look unpleasant. I know I'm part of that gormless looking majority to other people some of the time, too. I'd rather stare at real objects and sometimes make sure that I do instead, but I'm essentially addicted to the screen.

So my short answer is no, I don't - if anything I feel it too, only not for its supposed effects on "healthy" sociability, just for reasons that are just as vague, but more to do with it being somehow depressing to me how predictable humans can be.