If I am making any joke, I never laugh at it. Generally I don't have much of a sense of humar. I believe that people with a good sense of humar are less trustworthy then those who do not.
Humar is a tool for manipulation and being indirect. Since Aspies or direct, they don't really need to have a good sense of human. They don't need to use humar to mock other people or win people over.
It is said that woman like man with a good sense of human, I guess it is because they have good social manipulation skills and can use that skill to get their own way. I guess that it is the same old thing, social skills are very important regards dating and relationships.