cricketman123 wrote:
How am i supposed to find a girlfriend if i can't wrap up xmas presents well and need help to do that, how am i supposed to find a gf if i can't cook, can't use the washing machine, worry about running a bath. I am 24, i need to learn to grow up because i feel like a child sometimes.
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Men can't wrap presents; that's normal. My brother (instead of asking us females) paid strict attention to the salesclerk that he paid to wrap and learned that way. (Same as wrapping a sandwich.)
But the bow! Oh, he was on a roll! He bought ribbon and tried and tried - this is the most persistent guy in the world. Finally he paid to have a salesclerk do the wrapping again and paid strict attention - as the salesclerk slapped on a ready-made beautiful bow.
All the things you can't do sound okay to me. Smile if you can (oh, the tremendous power of a smile!). And do eye contact when/if you can. And there's something - I think it's called pro-active listening. Really listen so you can understand what it's like to be her, and repeat bits of it as she talks so she'll know. Nobody listens to us women - you'll be attractive.