Hear people laughing even its not at me, give me discomfort

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there is some threatment to that? that dont involves remedy? i feel really really terrible hearing laughing, especially women, since they have move pitched voice, the sound of laughing or screaming is really loud, It 's so loud it feels like it enter inside my soul.. i feel bad for feeling bad at this thing. the feeling is like, hmm, probably the same one when you are dismissed at a job interview, or when you fail a test that you really has to pass and you feel really bad, i mean physically and emotionally, also everytime that happens i had heartburn.

i will never get a gf if i dont familiarize with that noise, cause all of woman do that.

i hope i didnt sound creepy

Some laughs drive me nuts, and they usually do come from women. They cackle, snort, laugh so loud they can be heard in the next room or sound generally insincere with their laughter. I have heard men laugh as though it's coming out of their noses. (It sounds like a "sniff, sniff, sniff). I like sincere laughs from the heart.

I feel discomfort with people (strangers) laughing near me because I automatically think they are laughing at me, which causes me to feel self-conscious and anxious. But I don't think that is what you're talking about, as your's sounds more like a sensory issue thing, am I right?

I don't like when people laugh at their own jokes, saying something and then laughing at it. Usually what they say isn't remotely funny. I also hate when someone says something serious and then negates it by saying, "Just kidding." Their point then becomes moot to me.

I get people giving me weird looks from time to time in places I go when I don't give them weird looks, sometimes I get laughed at for no reason, I used to be upset by it but over time I just find it mildly annoying and confusing, I spent a long time analyzing myself and don't see much out of place except being hyper sensitive to everything when out and about which probably radiates a nervous disposition. I got snickered at by two supermarket workers the other week, they've seen me going around gathering food every so often and in there minding my own business and this time they were in close proximity to one another, saw me deliberating which box of strawberries to buy and clearly started laughing after looking up at me... it's like walking through a schoolyard sometimes, must be a boring place to work if you take notice of a paranoid pale vampire buying fruit. I am not too offensive on the eyes nor am I outfitted like a clown on the run or whatever but I attract attention when I don't want it lol, I get freaks in cars beeping and yelling incoherent crap at me a few times a month without fail too.

Hm, if I'm in an enclosed place, usually buses, I don't like it when people start laughing, either. It's an automatic response that I assume they are laughing at me. The sounds always (sound) mean, not happy. That said, I am hyper-aware of everything going on around me when outside and more than a little paranoid, so I can accept it's just another thing I will have to deal with, in the hope the anxiety it provokes reduces with enough practice.

I thought I was the only one with this problem. I'm always paranoid that people are laughing at me. I feel especially bad if it's a group of girls. I just hate their loud laughter. It's so obnoxious. I am very self conscious so it can be very scary. Usually they may not even be laughing at me but I feel there have been some times when people have.

strange that everytime i try to reply a commentary, its opens the field commentary with the word "off" on it. so i will reply directly.

IstominFan- man do some loud noise too. i had a kinda deaf old man guy that lived near me, and his sons(that were not deaf) just had only one way to say. and its talking very loud almost screaming. but i belive woman make some very louder noise. not all of woman of course, but if you meet a crazy overhappy woman on the street that shout or scream at everything that makes then overhappy, like a joke or kissing(i believe thats happening near here) she will start to act like an animal and instead of just smile, will scream or laught and scream at the same time dont realizing she lives in a society and that loud noise can harm old people, tired people, sick people on their houses, its like they think they are the center of universe. very immature attitude if you may ask me. strange that men laughing/talking loud give me almost the same feeling, but less, since they dont have the pitch effect.
by the way its happening again now. im sleepy, and i cant sleep. i believe its just some girls making noise. i feel that when its a man its easier to deal with it, you just call the police and thats it. but when its kids, underage woman or even a adult woman shouting or screaming, omg you cant do this, everyone in the hood will look at you like if you are the wrong person, the police will probably refuse to go here. i dont have support from the police or a ngo that deal with this. its like if i call the police(i never did cause i would feel embarrassed) and complain about this, they will ask me if i have a witness and they will want me to go with the noisy woman to the dp. ridiculous right? thats how it works here. i never tried to call and tell the cops that i have autism, cause im very shy and im afraid that the cops will tell then to stop and they will start to gossip evilly like this: "Do you know that in street x number y lives a very weird guy that has autism, and complained about my best friend? omg, your best friend that always help me? lets start to laugh or make noise near his house just to annoy him and then just ran away so he cant to anything and avenge our "poor" friend everyday? .... why i always overthink everything? maybe she would just stop.
about your second post, if im talking to a people that tell a funny joke and start to laught it, it not anoy me if that person dont have an anoying laugh. and if they tell me a silly joke(i love silly jokes) i can forgive then. like this one http://cdn.kickvick.com/wp-content/uplo ... kes-11.jpg


Joe90- i was like that, because the major bully i suffered in school was with people laugh at me, puting me bad nicknames, mocking and laughing pointing fingers at me, like this https://shedrowconfessions.files.wordpr ... pnllll.jpg , its just a example cause my bullies were 80% of time, men. none of school authorities giving a single $%#$ to me that create me a trauma to laughing, im kinda cured cause im not anxious at every type of laught anymore. if im inside my house i know they are not laughing at me, when im walking in public i can feel discomfort. lately even seaguls sounds(when i go to the beach) are driving me nuts because they are similar to the shouts of the crazy girls i talked about. i never had that problem with seagulls before. i just want to move from here.

Exuvian- ikr

DancingCorpse- god... next time that happen, look for the manager and explain whats happening, for the jerks get punished for harm a client. i would do that if that happened to me. thats inhuman.

crystaltermination- how did you practice?

FreakyZettairyouiki- no you are not sis yeah thats the worst at all. when there are groups of girls, its like their iq drop to the same level of monkeys and its a total disaster of noise. i still have hope that there are some decent woman that find this not polite to act like this.

im honestly surprised that most replies (5 of 7) was from woman who hate the laughing of another woman. you girls give me a little hope.

sorry if my text is messed up and confuse, i had some trouble Organizing thoughts. it take me over a hour to type this text, cause im always reviewing with fear of writting something polemic or inconsistent.