Is It Ok That I Give Up On Romance?

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So I'm mental case: aspergers, ADHD, and borderline personality disorder.
I'm a cisgendered 33 year old woman who mainly likes men but I would back away from sex so I'm sort of asexual maybe. But I also think about women sometimes, including transwomen.
I'm Not A Good At Finding A Partner and I hate myself. Is this ok?

According to some, romance is just two chemicals in the brain. We have enough children in this world as it is, it's alright. It's not like you're a lady of the upper class in 15th century England, you don't have a specific set of rules. Do what you want. If romance is a waste of time to you, then don't pursue it.

The only question is - do you feel that you need romance in your life?
If no, then I guess it makes many things easier
If yes, it's going to be trickier - finding & attracting someone, keeping someone, or having a string of lovers. I guess the internet makes the whole process a little easier, at least for me.

OP, please don't create identical threads in multiple forums again.