Willard wrote:
Precisely why I always end up the victim of bullying in any disagreement. By the time I'm ready to answer the first ugly remark, the other person is already on to the fifth or sixth one. It feels like being trapped in the corner of the ring and repeatedly bashed in the head, before one can even get one's hands up in defense.
Yeah. It takes me a while to structure what I want to say, and often, by the time I've done that, the argument is over and the person is feeling happy because they've vented, while I am seething internally.
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