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10 Apr 2017, 12:47 pm

I do this all the time. So much in fact that I don't even realize that I'm doing it most of the time. But when I do talk to myself. It's always saying my thoughts outloud. What I'm thinking or opinion on something. Either as being happy or ticked off. I do it. But my grandparents always get ticked off at me and says I should stop it and people find it weird. But I'm just saying what's coming in my head. I'm not thinking there's someone I'm talking too that's not there. And I have full conversations with myself. Knowing no one is there. Does anyone else do this or some similar things as this?



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10 Apr 2017, 2:04 pm

I do the conversation part when I'm alone and mostly when I'm not at home. I don't know the reason behind it and I tried to stop it but it just comes out naturally.

My boyfriend, diagnosed with schizoid and having many traits of asperger's, talks to himself constantly, nonstop. And it sometimes annoys me when I need a break of silence. His way of doing it is saying his thoughts out loud.



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10 Apr 2017, 2:09 pm

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I do the conversation part when I'm alone and mostly when I'm not at home. I don't know the reason behind it and I tried to stop it but it just comes out naturally.

My boyfriend, diagnosed with schizoid and having many traits of asperger's, talks to himself constantly, nonstop. And it sometimes annoys me when I need a break of silence. His way of doing it is saying his thoughts out loud.

But I'm not schizoid. I just what's coming in my head outloud.



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10 Apr 2017, 2:14 pm

I have conversations in my mind at times but don't say anything out loud.

I like to think,i'm communicating with my higher self.: )


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10 Apr 2017, 2:34 pm

I do admit to occasionally talking to myself, but it's something I manage to avoid doing in public because there's such a stigma against it.



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10 Apr 2017, 3:11 pm

Corny wrote:
But I'm not schizoid. I just what's coming in my head outloud.


I don't think talking to self is a schizoid trait. I mentioned his situation because he is very aspie like too even if he's not diagnosed.



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10 Apr 2017, 3:21 pm

I talk to myself all the time any if it's just little bits and pieces of a thought. My dad NT talks to himself a lot to though I don't think it's an ASD thing per se



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10 Apr 2017, 5:30 pm

I absolutely do the same, always have done. It's just natural, the whole sign of madness accusations are (society's?) way of shaming the culprits for doing something perceived as strange or even mildly antisocial when seen by others. I do my best thinking out loud, talking thoughts through to myself is how I best sort them into order or better absorb complicated information.


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10 Apr 2017, 7:05 pm

adoylelb90815 wrote:
I do admit to occasionally talking to myself, but it's something I manage to avoid doing in public because there's such a stigma against it.



Same for me… Usually when I am pacing or going for a walk. I always have headphones on, so most people just assume I’m on the phone or singing to music as I am walking by. But I usually go over previous conversations; maybe go over it, how I wish it gone and process it over with myself.



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11 Apr 2017, 12:41 am

I talk to myself out loud to myself because my parents are lousy listeners, so I can't just call them up and tell them my problems. I also don't have a professional to talk to, so I need to give myself my own advice.


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11 Apr 2017, 1:43 am

Everybody talks to themselves. They've just learned how to keep it inside their head. But using your voice is sorta more soothing.

When I do it or comes out as mumbled gibberish.



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11 Apr 2017, 7:45 am

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I talk to myself out loud to myself because my parents are lousy listeners, so I can't just call them up and tell them my problems. I also don't have a professional to talk to, so I need to give myself my own advice.


I always called that, consulting with the expert :lol:



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11 Apr 2017, 8:33 am

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Everybody talks to themselves. They've just learned how to keep it inside their head. But using your voice is sorta more soothing.

When I do it or comes out as mumbled gibberish.

Yeah that's what my grandparents told me I should do. Keep it in my head. But it's hard. I always like doing it outloud and it's easier too think about it when I say it and it's a habit too.



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12 Apr 2017, 5:18 am

Sometimes if I am thinking how a situation could potentially play out (I tend to over analyse things, and think the worst will happen, especially in social situations- I think we all may do this as we know we may be seen as "odd' or 'strange' by others), I do catch myself speaking aloud my part of the conversation.

This doesn't worry me too much, although if I am walking down the street alone I do wonder if people will think I am insane, and if I do it more than I realise. People have said to me before "Why are you talking to yourself?" and laugh, but not in a a nasty way. Usually when I say I was just thinking, and sometimes I think out loud by accident, people are fine with it, especially if they know me.



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12 Apr 2017, 8:12 am

conanthewarrior wrote:
Sometimes if I am thinking how a situation could potentially play out (I tend to over analyse things, and think the worst will happen, especially in social situations- I think we all may do this as we know we may be seen as "odd' or 'strange' by others), I do catch myself speaking aloud my part of the conversation.

This doesn't worry me too much, although if I am walking down the street alone I do wonder if people will think I am insane, and if I do it more than I realise. People have said to me before "Why are you talking to yourself?" and laugh, but not in a a nasty way. Usually when I say I was just thinking, and sometimes I think out loud by accident, people are fine with it, especially if they know me.

But my grandparents told me people will look at me weird and think I'm probably thinking I'm talking to someone that's not even there. That people will look at me weird and stuff and think I'm crazy. I'm surprised that people are fine with it. My grandparents tell me different.