anyone been to Japan?

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Hey, I was wondering if anyone had been to Japan.
I read in Tony Attwood's book the complete aspergers, that some aspergers find a home in japan.

As they find that the Japanese simply see them as the same as other foreigners who are also bad a communicating
and different to the Japanese culture.

Also, because Japan is full of technology, as well as anime and some quirky cultural elements.
Some aspergers find Japan fascinating.
I myself am really into Judo and am interested in other martial arts such as Kudo Daido juku.
as well as the whole culture, spirituality, technology and minimalist design ethic.

Anyone have any experiences in Japan?...

No I haven't, but I've been interested in Japan since I was 10 so I'd love to.

Unfortunately, Tokyo in particular is noted for its crowds. Not too good with those.

I have been to Tokyo a few times and even though I'm generally bad with crowds, I loved it. I am a city person so the feeling of being able to disappear into the mass of people was amazing to me. Smaller cities are probably better for people who hate crowds because it's hard to avoid them in Tokyo, at least if you go to the more popular areas like Shibuya or Akihabara.

The Japanese culture is quite reserved and people are mostly expected to keep their private matters to themselves (generalizing quite a bit but you get the meaning), so in that sense, it can be comfortable for an Aspie. Even as a female traveling solo, I didn't get harassed at all (although I've heard others have been so it depends). A big turn-off for many foreigners is that Japanese generally don't accept non-Japanese (or even non-Japanese looking) people as part of them, so to say, but it may not be as big of a deal to Aspies since some may already feel like not part of the community/crowd.

Japan is also incredibly clean and the public transport is top notch (although yes, the crowded trains are awful). And damn, is it beautiful.

(I realized how "know-it-all" this sounds lol, I don't claim to be an authority by any means! I've simply been quite invested in the culture for half my life, a lot of my friends have been too, so I've grabbed lots of information pieces along the way~)

I would love to see the cherry blossoms and visit Shinto shrines and Zen monasteries. I wonder if I would like living there?
I would also look for dragons and possibly Kami.

I've been, and really enjoyed the culture. The societal requirements are more ASD-friendly (lack of physical contact between those who don't know each other well, quite/reserved personality preferable, clear social rules - formality of speech necessary determined by the rank/age of the other person, specific customs for greeting people etc.) The technology is also interesting.

Not yet, but I hope to go to Japan one of these days. I've been fascinated by the country and its culture from a very young age.

if japan's such a great place for autists and the like then explain the hikikomori epidemic?
i think they have strict standards for who you should be and what's expected of you in society.
not to mention i hear they are rather xenophobic when it comes to non-japanese. they have a long history of racism against other asian races in fact. i'm not sure about whites, but whites probably have an easier time than others at least.
the few japanese girls i've spoken to online have been worse experiences than with other asian girls too.
other than that, it's hella expensive.

i do like a lot of the things japan introduces to the world though and the country and cities are probably beautiful but i think some place like thailand would be higher on the list for me.

I've been to Japan before. I was slightly disappointed, but I don't think there would be too much problems for at least foreign aspies.

I haven't, but I'd like to go. I would like to go to the 2020 Olympic Games in Tokyo.

I was in japan a few weeks before the tsunami in 2011

I am avoiding Japan due to fear of Godzilla.

I am now, I agree to some extent since yes, here people probably blame my being a foreigner for my clumsiness but I feel judged way more than in my country both for my behaviour and for my looks.

I've been to Japan and LOVED it. I think anyone with bad English will just assume that uncomfortable communication is due to different native languages, but the Japanese are spectacularly bad at English so that may be why it's so easy for an aspie to find a home there. Everyone there is very polite and values privacy. It's a quiet culture with quiet people.