emax10000 wrote:
kraftiekortie - Thanks for the prompt response. As I noted before, I ask because even within the Autism community there seems to be a backlash against special services. So I wonder how one should respond to a statement such as this:
"I have autism and an advanced degree and never asked for any special treatment. My boss wouldn't give a s**t, so why should the schools? In work ASD employees won't get extra time to finish projects so why should anybody get extra time on tests? In work nobody will have a service center to help with communication so why should schools? I didn't ask for it or get it, scientists like Temple Grandin never asked for it or got it so why should we give special treatment to anyone on the spectrum who professors claim need it?"
One should respond with, "That's an interesting take on it. Thanks." and leave it. The person saying that has a lot of anger and resentment any challenge to that thinking will be seen as an attack on them.
Edited to add: Their view on it is personal, as demonstrated by "My", "I" rather than "they", "us" which would denote a more open view. Personal views (as in relating to oneself) are difficult if not impossible to talk about, since there is no way to interrupt what they are thinking about to form those opinions. They can explain the situation, however it's their thinking that defines how it is perceived. Again just say thank, that's interesting and move on.
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