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11 May 2017, 3:38 pm

I did not want to accept my Aspeinger for a long time. I've felt that i'm inferior to others. All my life i've been shy and socially awkward.
For the most part of my life i did not know that my strange being has the name -Aspeinger syndrome. I've learned about it relatively recently.
I did not know what was wrong with me. It was hard to accept.
I've learned that there is a lot of people who are like me. With the same behavior.
The problem was that i wanted overcome it anyhow not nowing what my problem actualy is. I dont want to try to be other than i'm
it is impossible.
I'm not happy of it too much but i've just accepted it.
And i feel calm and pieace in my heart at the current moment.
Also i want express my gratitude for support on the forum.
To all members who gave me moral support and understanding.
And share their experiance regarding Arspeinger.
Thank you.



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11 May 2017, 4:14 pm

That is wonderful. I am glad this forum could help you.
I am curious what country you are from.


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11 May 2017, 4:48 pm

skibum wrote:
I am curious what country you are from.



why are you courious?



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11 May 2017, 4:55 pm

The way you spell certain words and phrase your sentences. I enjoy languages and enjoy learning how people from different countries navigate the English language. I also enjoy understanding how English speakers learn other languages.


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11 May 2017, 5:04 pm

skibum wrote:
phrase your sentences.


for example.



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11 May 2017, 5:47 pm

JLD wrote:
I did not want to accept my Aspeinger for a long time. I've felt that i'm inferior to others. All my life i've been shy and socially awkward.
For the most part of my life i did not know that my strange being has the name -Aspeinger syndrome. I've learned about it relatively recently.
I did not know what was wrong with me. It was hard to accept.
I've learned that there is a lot of people who are like me. With the same behavior.
The problem was that i wanted overcome it anyhow not nowing what my problem actualy is. I dont want to try to be other than i'm
it is impossible.
I'm not happy of it too much but i've just accepted it.
And i feel calm and pieace in my heart at the current moment.


I am happy for you. I hope more autistics will feel that way.


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11 May 2017, 6:42 pm

I'm glad you've accepted it. When I was diagnosed I was in denial about my AS because I thought it was saying that my entire personality can be found in some doctor's book somewhere. But I've since learned that us aspies are just as individual as neurotypicals.



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11 May 2017, 6:58 pm

JLD wrote:
skibum wrote:
phrase your sentences.


for example.

Here are examples from your original post which would not be typical phrasing for a native English speaker. So they made me wonder if you were from a different country. And you have another post in another thread with similar types of phrases. And I have also never seen the word Asperger's spelled as you spell it so I was wondering if it was how it was spelled in a different language.

But here are examples since you asked for some:
JLD wrote:
For the most part of my life i did not know that my strange being has the name -Aspeinger syndrome. I've learned about it relatively recently.

The problem was that i wanted overcome it anyhow not nowing what my problem actualy is. I dont want to try to be other than i'm
it is impossible.
I'm not happy of it too much but ....

And share their experiance regarding Arspeinger.
.


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12 May 2017, 1:09 am

skibum wrote:
JLD wrote:
skibum wrote:
phrase your sentences.


for example.

Here are examples from your original post which would not be typical phrasing for a native English speaker. So they made me wonder if you were from a different country. And you have another post in another thread with similar types of phrases. And I have also never seen the word Asperger's spelled as you spell it so I was wondering if it was how it was spelled in a different language.

But here are examples since you asked for some:
JLD wrote:
For the most part of my life i did not know that my strange being has the name -Aspeinger syndrome. I've learned about it relatively recently.

The problem was that i wanted overcome it anyhow not nowing what my problem actualy is. I dont want to try to be other than i'm
it is impossible.
I'm not happy of it too much but ....

And share their experiance regarding Arspeinger.
.

I speak a little bit strange in both languages.



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12 May 2017, 1:11 am

TUAndrew wrote:
I'm glad you've accepted it. it was saying that my entire personality can be found in some doctor's book somewhere.

Yeas. The same feeling....



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12 May 2017, 11:30 am

JLD wrote:
skibum wrote:
JLD wrote:
skibum wrote:
phrase your sentences.


for example.

Here are examples from your original post which would not be typical phrasing for a native English speaker. So they made me wonder if you were from a different country. And you have another post in another thread with similar types of phrases. And I have also never seen the word Asperger's spelled as you spell it so I was wondering if it was how it was spelled in a different language.

But here are examples since you asked for some:
JLD wrote:
For the most part of my life i did not know that my strange being has the name -Aspeinger syndrome. I've learned about it relatively recently.

The problem was that i wanted overcome it anyhow not nowing what my problem actualy is. I dont want to try to be other than i'm
it is impossible.
I'm not happy of it too much but ....

And share their experiance regarding Arspeinger.
.

I speak a little bit strange in both languages.
Oh ok. That's cool. The important thing is that we understand what you are trying to say and we do so it's good.


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12 May 2017, 3:23 pm

That is great to hear! I am (right now) at an acceptance place for Asperger's as well. I am not sure how old you are, but I didn't know I had Asperger's until I was 47. That is a long time of believing something different that I am having to overcome.



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12 May 2017, 3:46 pm

ProfessorJohn wrote:
That is great to hear! I am (right now) at an acceptance place for Asperger's as well. I am not sure how old you are, but I didn't know I had Asperger's until I was 47. That is a long time of believing something different that I am having to overcome.

I'm an old man in fact. I'm 34 years old .
Being old i should accept everything
no way :D