girl7000 wrote:
I know that some places (though not all) will accept anyone who has known you since birth - so it can be an aunt or uncle or godparent or family friend etc.
Also, CLASS told me that as my parents were unwilling to come, they could send a questionnaire for me to give to them and then bring, completed, to the diagnosis with me. But this was several months ago - they may have changed the procedure.
I think that may well still be the case - only if it's not a matter of not wanting to come in person (but being dead, or not wanting you diagnosed etc.) then obviously it's still a problem.