League_Girl wrote:
Oh for god's sake, even NT kids need to stim because they also can't sit still for long periods of the time. Back in my childhood days they just doodled in their books or on their desks. Even NT adults can't sit still for like 40 minutes and not do something with their body during a meeting or a class or lecture. This is just ridiculous. If they were loud stim toys, that would be another story. But I think everyone should do it quietly. I had to do mine quietly so I wouldn't disturb the teacher or any of the other students and no one bothered me about it unless I was pacing.
Also studies have shown that ADHD kids do better when they fidget because it actually helps them focus. Even my ex boyfriend said the same so when he was expected to sit still in class, he couldn't focus in school because all his energy went to focusing on not moving his body. Then I see an article about it like five years later and I was like "duh." Even my mom agreed too and understood.
That is exactly my point.
I bought a fidget cube very recently and it has already come in very handy a few times.
The only time that it was not enough was when I was stressing out at a horrible dentist's appointment at a horrible new dentist's office.
The heavy, lead, dental x-ray apron helped with that though.
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31st of July, 2013
Diagnosed:
Autism Spectrum Disorder,
Auditory-Verbal Processing Speed Disorder, and
Visual-Motor Processing Speed Disorder.
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