No Meltdowns?

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I don't think I've ever gotten a meltdown in my life. I have always been a quiet person, and even as a baby/toddler my parents said I rarely threw tantrums or cried. I do think I've experienced shutdowns though, as I tend to become distant and nonverbal/semiverbal when stressed or overwhelmed. I haven't met or seen many autistic people who haven't experienced meltdowns at some point in their life (maybe this is a sweeping generalization on my part), so is this normal? Or have I not been pushed far enough to experience this?

I've never had a meltdown either as far as I can remember. I can get enraged
over small things and my brain freezes sometimes, though not so much these
days. I've also suffered anxiety and panic attacks at times.

A meltdown as a child wouldn't have been tolerated in my family, I would have
got a slap across the face. Maybe I knew that and just internalised everything
or maybe it's just not me. I really don't know.

I have also never had a traditional meltdown. My response to extreme stress is to shut down and become completely unable to speak. As the person above said, my family would not have tolerated a meltdown and so I attribute that as the reason that I go in the opposite direction. I can't even remember a time in my life when I've screamed at anyone. I have, however, had major issues with self destructive behaviors throughout my life and so, in a way, I think these may actually be my meltdowns. Since I was taught not to externalize anything, I internalize it all until I completely crack and self destruct. Not desirable by any means.

not everyone with ASD will meltdown. i know a couple who never meltdown.

i do, pretty often. being anywhere out of my comfort zone will cause a meltdown, not instantly but eventually.

The shutdowns are probably the meltdowns. Like NT's we experience emotions and anger but depending on your personality you'll express them in different ways. And by "express" I mean, vent them out or deal with them. I explode with anger as it all spills out at once like a giant vomit, and splatters everywhere forever staining my space. But then other times or when I'm in public, or under extreme amounts of pressure, I have to desperately find ways to filter out the anger using a specific thought or something.

I'm not entirely sure as to whether I've ever had a meltdown or not, but I know I didn't have meltdowns as a kid. If I've ever had meltdowns, they've "come with age" in a way. I can go from 0 to 60 faster than a Ferrari if something angers me.

I don't think the traditional meltdown is necessarily all that common with high functioning autism.

I have them sometimes, even now.

I've had cops on the subway ask me if I'm "all right." I snap out of it right away LOL

I'd lose my job if I got arrested.

I was wondering this too actually. Similar to the above posters my parents said that I didn't cry a lot or have many tantrums as a kid. If I get overwhelmed then I often get anxiety attacks and shutdowns but never meltdowns.

I was a big-time tantrum-thrower.