I feel like never talking again

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I'm sick of everyone including everyone on here.

People misunderstand misinrepret overanalyze assume rush in procrastinate I feel like dancing in the street while singing in French. There is no sense to it at all

What happened?

That's people for you....especially people who have "ego."

I appreciate this thread mane

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Everyone has an ego and you can't measure the ego

The speaker has only one intended definition

The recipient takes the message an unlimited number of ways

All the ways of interpretation except one are misunderstandings

If you do not want to post on Wrong Planet, then do not post

Did someone hold a gun to your head or financially bribe you to post on Wrong Planet?

The problem is that sometimes the recipient misinterprets the message in ways the speaker did not imagine a priori

And sometimes the recipient takes action based on the misunderstood statement. That causes harm to the speaker or someone else. When harm otherwise would not have been done. If no misunderstanding were to have occurred

But yeah I get what you are trying to explain (I think)

The cost benefit analysis just is not worth it

What if someone understands what you said, then what?

Answer:. Whooptie do

It was that way when I started Gender Therapy in 2004 in homophobic San Diego

Precious lil "people" did not know what they did not know about being trans. And they thought they knew. And they had the nerve to tell me that it was "lying" for me to ask them to call me "he" instead of "she".

And they acted like I invented "lying

And that lying was the worst crime in the world

And they had never done anything wrong before

Certainly not "lying"

It also gets on my nerves when someone thinks I said something that I did not say

For example, "former" instead of "father"

I get what you mean. Or do I? (Get the joke?)

Every day when I go out walking people look at me like they want something from me. If I say hello they give me an angry expression because my tone of voice isn't like most peoples. So I don't say hello and people give me an angry look for that too.

And people everywhere I go assume things. If I'm making eye contact I'm 'staring'. If I'm not then I'm rude.

I feel sad I can't connect with people, even on here I can't say the right things to make a bond. The repeated rejection or confusion and sense of alienation makes me feel like staying inside all day. But I am getting care workers to help me soon, they will take me out places. I've struggled for a while to get help, maybe with them it will change, I just don't know.

I'm on the OP's side. I hope there is no misunderstanding.

I always ask: Please do ASK before you assume.

I meant that the people giving Fifasy grief had too much "ego."