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chris1989
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17 Jun 2019, 9:16 am

I seem to have this dread when summer comes along about there being bad thunderstorms, whenever there is one, if I am at home in the evening, I feel the need to shut the doors and turn the lights on in order to cover the flashes and then drown out the noise of the thunder with loud music with my headphones. I have even resorted to hiding in the closet under the stairs. I feel it started a few years back when in the middle of the night it was very warm and there was frequent lightning and thunder everywhere and there was even a lightning strike that hit someone's shed down the road and set on fire and really made us all jump and it was terrifying and since I've dreaded there being another one like that but we haven't for a while except just had storms when its been less humid and less frequent thunder and lightning but I do sometimes constantly check the forecasts and the moment I find out about yellow warnings and stuff I start worrying about it, I just don't like it at night because I can't sleep at all but during the afternoon if there is one I can always go out somewhere and avoid being at home if there's a storm.



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17 Jun 2019, 9:18 am

Many people don't like thunderstorms. I don't think anybody will scorn you because of your fear of thunderstorms.



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17 Jun 2019, 11:16 pm

The broad definition of a phobia is a fear that causes such anxiety as to prevent you from performing normal daily activities. Constantly checking the weather forecast, hiding in a closet and leaving your home just to avoid a storm all fall into that category. Technically you have to be diagnosed to know if something is a true phobia, but the term is tossed around colloquially a lot. I’d say it’s likely that you’d be diagnosed with a specific phobia related to thunderstorms. The most common treatment for phobias is exposure therapy with a psychologist or other specialist. For what it’s worth, I’m afraid of thunderstorms too, though mine doesn’t rise to the level of a phobia. I’m more afraid of the thunder than the lightning because it’s explosive and random and puts me on edge big time with my sound sensitivity and anxiety.


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18 Jun 2019, 6:18 am

I'd gladly take a thunderstorm over a snowstorm.



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18 Jun 2019, 7:05 am

As living on top of a hill we tend to get hit by lightening. About 15 to 20 years ago there was a huge bang. Lightening hit the transformer which steps down the electricity voltage for us to use. The transformer is situated up a pole outside the neighboars house so is about a football pitch and a qusrter... Maybe a half... away from here. About a quarter of a football pitch away from their house?
A couple of years ago, I felt the Lord saying to go into the middle of the barn. I was just outside the barn when He said this. I did, and flashbang, flashbang, flashbang... Lightening came without warning and hit the barn several times. The bangs were so loud and came the same time as the lightening. Then it went as if it had never been. We get a lot of government experiments in these parts so it could have been that.
Had many close shaves like that. Each time the Lord giving warning so we can stay safe. That day though... I was a bit concerned to come out of the barn when it stopped, just incase. The strange thing is that it it stopped, and then nothing. No distant thunder as it moved away. Nothing! I know it hit the barn because each time it hit it was so bright outside. It was like three specifically directed bolts of lightlening. The gaps under the barn were bright clear white...Like welding...

When I went back to the house I first waited about 30 minutes, and then I was ducking down and heading close to the walls etc. I didn't want to be the highest point!



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19 Jun 2019, 12:47 pm

ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
I'd gladly take a thunderstorm over a snowstorm.


As would I.


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