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beachgirll9
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24 Sep 2010, 3:09 pm

it was real but i feel dumb about it now....

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24 Sep 2010, 3:21 pm

If this is for real and you're not just trolling then I say leave the poor guy alone and stop stalking him.

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24 Sep 2010, 3:29 pm

Welcome to WrongPlanet.

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24 Sep 2010, 3:31 pm

Take 2 aspirin and 40 hail marys

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24 Sep 2010, 3:34 pm

thats a great plan lol :):)
it was for real.....Isound like an obsessed psycho its just with the aspie differences I didnt know how to save the Rel..i felt like it was one big tantrum but the bottom line is he prob didnt want me around period...

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24 Sep 2010, 3:34 pm

MotherKnowsBest wrote:

If this is for real and you're not just trolling then I say leave the poor guy alone and stop stalking him.

Ditto. When people have acted that way toward me, it makes me so anxious I feel like clawing my own skin off! What a horrible way to treat someone with AS! We don't play "hard to get." When we go away, we typically don't want to be chased after!

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beachgirll9
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24 Sep 2010, 3:36 pm

i cant change it now...i stopped chasing...
I didnt mean to be terrible trust me love this person!! !

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24 Sep 2010, 3:37 pm

Seriously, after reading what you posted no wonder he doesn't want to be around you. You seem to have major control issues, chances are he isn't going to ever realize he was being mean, because he wasent. Sounds like he was just scared.... If I was you I would stop contacting him unless you want a restraining order.

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24 Sep 2010, 3:44 pm

I realize you didn't mean to be terrible. Chances are, your intense feelings and the way you acted on them were completely overwhelming to him. Take the lesson as this: when you meet someone similar in the future (because any chance with this guy is gone and you can only look toward th chance of meeting a similar person later), expend a lot of effort in "holding back" and let him take the lead in things. If you feel like he wants to take things to another level but doesn't know how, give him an "opening" but continue to be extremely restrained. Try to put your emotions and interactions into slow motion and maybe think of it this way: if the way you feel is a platter of rice, nevre feed him more than one grain at a time and wait for him to respond before feeding another. The whole dish at once will only choke him.

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beachgirll9
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24 Sep 2010, 3:45 pm

there is actually A LOT more to the story......but the bottom line was i shouldnt have chased him not b/c of what he HAS but for MY OWN sanity it was sad for me

i dont have control issues, i have a great healthy relaitonship and many great friends etc..

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24 Sep 2010, 3:47 pm

thank you sparrow that makes sense

i really am heartbroken over the loss of him....
i cried on and off for three months....
I kid you not..

i think he has other issues too....im not sure

i pray someday we are in touch again

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24 Sep 2010, 3:55 pm

is there anyway to remove this post?

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24 Sep 2010, 4:02 pm

beachgirll9 wrote:

is there anyway to remove this post?

You can go here http://www.wrongplanet.net/posts132621-start15.html

Post a reply and ask the moderators to lock the topic. Post this link to the reply:

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt138684.html

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24 Sep 2010, 4:02 pm

beachgirll9 wrote:

is there anyway to remove this post?

Not to my knowledge. Contact Alex and ask if he can remove it for you.

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24 Sep 2010, 6:45 pm

Am I missing something here?

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24 Sep 2010, 9:24 pm

hartzofspace wrote:

Am I missing something here? :?

Yeah, the OP made a post and then had second thoughts and changed it about ten minutes later but a bunch of us had already read it before she changed it.

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