Do You feel Being Called Disabled Insulting?

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I am disabled in more ways than just autism, so I definitely think of myself as disabled.

But if I wrote 'WP is a support forum for disabled people', would that offend you? And if so why?

Wouldn't offend me at all.

Not offended.....but “disabled” is somewhat of a misnomer in many cases.

Ezra, for example, is “able” in some, perhaps many, things.

I was going to make a joke that it's ironic that a website/forum for disabled people is disabled itself. But then I pictured some people getting offended. Sometimes I don't know if I'm prudent or just being paranoid.

but I was also curious how people here would respond to the question in the title aside from that.

I would laugh. This Site irritates me when it acts stupid.

Maybe if we insult it by calling it “stupid,” it might become so angered that it becomes an intelligent being, and fixes itself.

Well, I lost my post, but trying again...

I was going to say that if the forum was labelled as for the disabled, I would feel excluded.
Because I'm close to the boundary between autistic and NT, mostly I don't feel disabled. It can be a problem for me, this in-between place, in which I can't quite pass as NT but neither am I seen as disabled - it feels like I don't fit in either world.
Occasionally, when I'm struggling, I think it might help to be recognised as disabled instead of held to NT standards. But then if I tell people about my Aspergers and they start making allowances, it hits my pride that they consider me less capable than before, and I wish I hadn't said anything.

Seems like the breadth of experience within the autistic community is a challenge in this way. Often it is the "mild" or "high functioning" who dominate debates here, so that the more severely affected feel left out. But if we start labelling autism as necessarily a disability, maybe people like me would be disenfranchised.

I wouldn't feel insulted, though, because disability is not a character flaw.

The in between world sounds very difficult. perhaps more difficult than being all the way there.

Yeah autism is a disability and like most disabilities there is a spectrum of how disabled you are.

In my case, yes. Though I have trouble with some things that other people find easy, I also have abilities that exceed those of most "normal" people. So why aren't they considered disabled for not being able to do the things I can do easily? Simply because their strengths and weakness are typical, whereas mine are atypical.

No, I'm disabled and I know it.

But the key...is to try to avoid being TREATED like you're disabled.

Annoying

No, because I'm one of the more obviously disabled sorts. I've seen higher-functioning autistics rail against the term, though, insisting that those with autism shouldn't be considered disabled because "they can achieve anything a neurotypical can, as long as they get a little extra help." I despise generalizations like that, but I'm willing to believe that there are autistics who aren't disabled. And I suppose those cases would consider the label offensive when applied to autism in general, since it would appear to exclude them. All the same, I can't find fault with it. I feel that the number of autistics who don't have a significant impairment in some sense must constitute a very slim percentage of the community as a whole.