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04 Jun 2018, 10:29 pm

I usually dislike hugs but today I hugged a lot of people.

Every morning my teacher hugs me if I want it. I did for some reason. I hugged her. It felt good today. Then I did it again at lunch when I was feeling a bit upset. I hugged my mom, therapist, brother and dad as well.

I dont know why I felt like that today. It was weird. I think I felt understimulated today.


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05 Jun 2018, 10:35 am

Hi Ilikemusic ~ Nice that you have people to hug when you care to :)

I don't want to hug anybody although sometimes I want to be hugged. I would like this to change but not in a hurry.



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05 Jun 2018, 10:40 am

Your'e a nice guy, ilikemusic.



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05 Jun 2018, 11:56 am

(((hugs)))



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05 Jun 2018, 12:49 pm

Hugs Hugs Hugs!! Im happy today. :D im gonna flap my hands


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05 Jun 2018, 5:05 pm

Interesting that you're normally opposed to hugs but felt like it today. I've found that people like us tend to either be huggers, or not. But I guess some can fluctuate. Myself, I hug people - usually the kids in my life, and one of my Aspie friends as well as one of my Aunt's both say that I give the best hugs. It means a lot coming from my Aspie friend, because he's a hugger and hugs all of his friends, family, coworkers, and even guests where he worked. My twin brother, on the other hand, is not a hugger at all and always looks so awkward like he's forcing himself to try to mimic what a hug is supposed to look like when he hugs someone.


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05 Jun 2018, 7:18 pm

That is really cool that you hugged today. I know that people that you hugged loved it. I am sure especially your mom did. I am really glad that you enjoyed the experience. I love deep pressure bear hugs. They really help me feel calm and safe. Hopefully they will do the same for you. Sounds like you had a great day. That is awesome.
(((Likemusic)))


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05 Jun 2018, 7:46 pm

I have days days where I like a hug or even being cuddled.