I think I might have been misdiagnosed
Aspergers, later re-diagnosed as ADHD combined and HFA.
However, finding more resources about ADHD has made me realize that a lot of what I had formerly though of as autistic behavior was actually more in line with ADHD, and emotional dysregulation, as well as false perceptions of how people felt about me (RSD).
In addition, both my psych doctor and cbt therapist have doubts. I also scored 21 and 23 the last two times I took an AQ test. Also, on this test (http://www.rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php) I achieved a score of 135 for NT and 66 for neurodiverse (for validation, it was recommended by Gavin Bollard https://life-with-aspergers.blogspot.co ... -quiz.html).
Has anyone else experienced things like this as they reached adulthood? - I'm 21 now
It's possible that you were misdiagnosed, but I wouldn't give more credence to an online test than to a careful, multi-faceted diagnosis by a qualified provider. Was your diagnostic process multi-faceted and careful? Did it involve both written and behavioral assessments? Were parental and school opinion taken into account? Did it occur over more than one day?
It's possible that you have successfully met most of your challenges up to this point in your life. But keeping in mind your autism diagnosis might be helpful as you move into future stages in life, such as full employment, living away from parents, dating, marriage, and parenthood.
For some reason it is less stigmatized to have ADHD than to have autism, so you are not the first person I've seen who wanted the former diagnosis rather than the latter. I'd suggest not making a rash decision. Observe yourself over the next one to three years, and keep an open mind.
(what is RSD?)
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It’s possible you were misdiagnosed since there is a fair degree of overlap between the two disorders. Some of the traits you mention like the flactuating emotions could be ADHD but can also be attributed to multiple other disorders. Also a lot of the Aspergers stereotypes are based on male behaviors which is maybe where the “emotionally flat” stereotype comes from. It does tend to present differently in girls and women.
I also saw the article on RSD which stands for rejection sensitive dysphoria. This basically means thinking that people don’t like you when they do or when they are indifferent. They tried to say that this trait was exclusive to ADHD which makes absolutely ZERO SENSE and there are a million things that can cause this. Aspergers can actually be one of them since people in the spectrum tend to misread social cues. Also social anxiety, depression and past abuse can also cause this. Didn’t you mention once that you had a lot of narcissists in your family? Chronic narcissistic abuse can cause this as well, especially the “overcompensating” that they spoke about in the article. Honestly the whole article seemed to be describing victims of abuse more accurately than ADD. I wouldn’t be surprised if big pharma was behind it, trying to push meds on a quarter of the population!
I also saw the article on RSD which stands for rejection sensitive dysphoria. This basically means thinking that people don’t like you when they do or when they are indifferent. They tried to say that this trait was exclusive to ADHD which makes absolutely ZERO SENSE and there are a million things that can cause this. Aspergers can actually be one of them since people in the spectrum tend to misread social cues. Also social anxiety, depression and past abuse can also cause this. Didn’t you mention once that you had a lot of narcissists in your family? Chronic narcissistic abuse can cause this as well, especially the “overcompensating” that they spoke about in the article. Honestly the whole article seemed to be describing victims of abuse more accurately than ADD. I wouldn’t be surprised if big pharma was behind it, trying to push meds on a quarter of the population!
I see what you're saying and you make a lot of good points. I think it might have been a combination of depression and ADHD (both of which I have :/ ). I don't actually have any narcissists in my family, and my parents and my brother are some of the best people I have ever known
I also saw the article on RSD which stands for rejection sensitive dysphoria. This basically means thinking that people don’t like you when they do or when they are indifferent. They tried to say that this trait was exclusive to ADHD which makes absolutely ZERO SENSE and there are a million things that can cause this. Aspergers can actually be one of them since people in the spectrum tend to misread social cues. Also social anxiety, depression and past abuse can also cause this. Didn’t you mention once that you had a lot of narcissists in your family? Chronic narcissistic abuse can cause this as well, especially the “overcompensating” that they spoke about in the article. Honestly the whole article seemed to be describing victims of abuse more accurately than ADD. I wouldn’t be surprised if big pharma was behind it, trying to push meds on a quarter of the population!
I see what you're saying and you make a lot of good points. I think it might have been a combination of depression and ADHD (both of which I have :/ ). I don't actually have any narcissists in my family, and my parents and my brother are some of the best people I have ever known
That’s good. Maybe it was another post I saw from someone with a similar name. It was a post talking about how people on the spectrum always seem to be the black sheep in families where there are a lot of narcissists. Also, how chronic abuse can cause autism traits to appear in people who actually aren’t on the spectrum.
I also saw the article on RSD which stands for rejection sensitive dysphoria. This basically means thinking that people don’t like you when they do or when they are indifferent. They tried to say that this trait was exclusive to ADHD which makes absolutely ZERO SENSE and there are a million things that can cause this. Aspergers can actually be one of them since people in the spectrum tend to misread social cues. Also social anxiety, depression and past abuse can also cause this. Didn’t you mention once that you had a lot of narcissists in your family? Chronic narcissistic abuse can cause this as well, especially the “overcompensating” that they spoke about in the article. Honestly the whole article seemed to be describing victims of abuse more accurately than ADD. I wouldn’t be surprised if big pharma was behind it, trying to push meds on a quarter of the population!
I agree. I don't have ADHD, but I'm pretty sure I have RSD from what you described. For me, it was probably caused by a combination of autism and past experiences. I'm glad I have a name for it now.
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I also saw the article on RSD which stands for rejection sensitive dysphoria. This basically means thinking that people don’t like you when they do or when they are indifferent. They tried to say that this trait was exclusive to ADHD which makes absolutely ZERO SENSE and there are a million things that can cause this. Aspergers can actually be one of them since people in the spectrum tend to misread social cues. Also social anxiety, depression and past abuse can also cause this. Didn’t you mention once that you had a lot of narcissists in your family? Chronic narcissistic abuse can cause this as well, especially the “overcompensating” that they spoke about in the article. Honestly the whole article seemed to be describing victims of abuse more accurately than ADD. I wouldn’t be surprised if big pharma was behind it, trying to push meds on a quarter of the population!
I agree. I don't have ADHD, but I'm pretty sure I have RSD from what you described. For me, it was probably caused by a combination of autism and past experiences. I'm glad I have a name for it now.
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