More about my dissociation, PLEASE help

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DaneClark
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04 Jul 2018, 7:44 am

I have two alts that I REALLY want to be able to integrate, but I cant because they are so absolutely irreconcilable. I NEED to know every possible technique that could be used to integrate them - it doesn't seem possible for there to be anything that will work but knowing every possible technique would still be better than nothing.

One of them likes to always have everything very rigidly planned out, but in a way that's very gentle and feels very healthy. The other one likes to "absorb" things because it has very deep personal meaning, but can only do so when it feels like the future has no rigid structure to it 



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04 Jul 2018, 7:50 am

Just get your first personality to trick the second personality into thinking that the first personality is having unplanned experiences while every experience is really planned ahead of time (like a school lesson) for him.



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04 Jul 2018, 11:34 am

Taking you seriously, OP, I have to say that nobody here is qualified to offer the help you're seeking. This is very sensitive work, and very serious work, and you really need to work with a qualified professional in order to safely do what you need.

I hope you are able to find someone to work with, and that you have sufficient disability insurance or other coverage to accomplish this. I'm not brushing you off, not at all; what you have described is a serious condition, and really has to be competently treated in order for results to "stick".


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04 Jul 2018, 3:56 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
Just get your first personality to trick the second personality into thinking that the first personality is having unplanned experiences while every experience is really planned ahead of time (like a school lesson) for him.


You know that might have been just what I was looking for, thanks :D