Do any of you have problems with recognizing others?
Although I can identify people with whom I've frequently interacted such as my building administrators or the head of building maintenance, I've had (and continue to have) problems with identifying people whom I don't see very often.
If you take 8 kids (pictured above) of a similar ethnicity, gender, general age, and physique, I can't tell them apart.
A few years ago after transferring to my current school, my Department Chair and I drove to Las Vegas for a district wide meeting of all Career and Technical Education teachers. After arriving at this conference, I excused myself to use the restroom. The Department Chair, (I will call him George which is not his real name), told me that he'd find us seats.
When I came out of the restroom, I looked for George. George was a heavy set middle aged white guy with a brown beard. He had been wearing a blue shirt. How many heavy set middle aged white guys with brown beards and blue shirts could there have been? I thought I'd be able to find George but instead found six people matching the aforementioned description who were scattered about the conference hall.
I wound up not sitting with George. George later found me for lunch and asked me where I had been. I was too embarrassed to tell him that I hadn't been able to recognize him.
More recently we had an evening event at our school which required the presence of all teachers. After the event, I went to Chili's for dinner. I was reading a book on my tablet when I looked up to see a woman waving at me from the bar. I assumed that she was waving at someone behind me and ignored her. A few moments later the guy seated next to her began waving. I ignored him as well.
On the following morning while I was walking down a hallway, the school counselor popped out of her office to ask me why I hadn't waved at her last night at Chili's. This experience provided me with a new insight. Not only do I have problems with identifying people from their facial features but my recognition of people also depends upon my situation context.
I had no problems with recognizing the school counselor while at work, but I failed to recognize her when we were off campus.
I apologized for my unintentional rudeness in not having returned the counselor's wave. I explained my problem regarding my ability to identify people. I then asked her who her companion had been. Since he had also waved at me, I assumed he must have also been a colleague.
The counselor turned red and told me that the stranger had been a date and that he didn't work at our school.
I asked her why the waved at me and she turned even more red and told me that he had been joking I presume from her redness that she was embarrassed though I don't understand why. I also don't understand the joke. No matter. (sigh)
Since I have problems with recognizing my students (unless they're advanced culinary and I've had them for 2-3 years), I've compensated by having an assigned seating chart for each class. Although I allowed students to choose their own seats at the start of the year, these choices then became their permanent seating assignment. This makes it easier for me to take attendance. It also helps during class discussions by indicating who I'm speaking with.
When we go in the kitchen, I require students to write their names on the recipes at each station. Signing in lets me know who was at each station. This is sometimes important if a group left the station without properly cleaning tools and equipment.
I was wondering if any of you had similar problems regarding your ability to recognize others. If you have had similar problems, what sort of coping mechanisms have you developed?