Do you have to change your life after 30 and over ?

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chris1989
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03 Oct 2018, 6:45 am

I seem to think when you are 30 you still not considered young anymore, as if its like middle age like when you get to 40 or over and I seem to think you have to take life more seriously, and change the youthful behaviour. Its a bit like I remember being told before I was 13 to stop going to a jungle jim. What would be wrong to still behave youthful at 30 until 35 and over than 30 and over ?



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03 Oct 2018, 7:03 am

chris1989 wrote:
What would be wrong to still behave youthful at 30 until 35 and over than 30 and over ?

Nothing at all. At least I have no problems with that until now.

You should always behave as you feel and as you like it and not as you assume that others would like you to be. It's a typical Aspergers problem. I once started a thread just because of this viewtopic.php?t=368791 .


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03 Oct 2018, 8:15 am

You have to change your life in one single point. Start being yourself as soon as possible and be as you like it and not as you assume that others would like you to be. The most adapted people are just ignored or even mobbed but nobody really likes them. And if you are not NT you'll have even more problems with making friends.


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03 Oct 2018, 8:19 am

Of course not. I've done well enough financially that I can buy silly things that I don't need. Nor do I need a reason to do so.



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03 Oct 2018, 8:23 am

chris1989 wrote:
What would be wrong to still behave youthful at 30 until 35 and over than 30 and over ?


Hopefully nothing as I'm not growing up anytime soon.


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