How does one deal with a combative mother?

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That doesn't even try to understand my simptons

Would you be willing to tell us some of the specifics of how she behaves toward you?

Also, do you have an ASD diagnosis, and, if so, does she know about it?

Move out.

That's not aways possible. My mother is the same way and when I tried to move out she wouldn't let me have access to my SSI money and took away my phone. When I called the police, they just believed her.

Moving worked for me.

Unfortunately that is one of the most difficult situations you can be in. Try to avoid her and just keep your distance. That might be the best you can do. Keep your interactions at a minimum.

Ask a simplified question, get a simplified answer.

Armandeyes, it would be better if you were able to tell us specific things that your mother does to you.

Otherwise, it's virtually impossible to give suitable advice.

I am realizing now how much my mom was emotionally abusive. As I grew older I began to assert myself and she escalated to physical abuse. I was on my way out of the household. Do you have outside support that understands the degree to which your mother is combative? If you are diagnosed, maybe you could get the gov't (social workers) to intervene and help keep the SSI. Would this count as Domestic Abuse (hotline 1-800-799-7233)?

I didn't start to get clear of my mom psychologically until age 40, and I'm still working on it! According to an online test we know have a healthy relationship (she's starting admitting mistakes), but I still find it *very* trying.

Wishing you safety and caring...