As a young adult have people tried to pick fights with you?

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04 Jan 2020, 5:52 pm

Not as a kid or older, but as a young adult (mostly male) between that "volatile" late teens to mid-twenties period, did you get anyone become hostile / aggressive to the point that they wanted to beat you, "teach you a lesson", let's step outside and settle this, etc, etc?

If so:
- how did you handle it?
- did you suspect it was due to the manifestations of your ASD?
- did they accuse you of insulting them in some way that wasn't intended?



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04 Jan 2020, 7:55 pm

It was long ago, but no.



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05 Jan 2020, 11:05 am

It wont stop and has to do with the hierarchy thinking of NTs.
I was a bit in the clubs once I was 50 and it was still the same. It became less once I learned eye contact towards guys and acted a lot more self confident or maybe even obviously aggressive. After this many guys just wanted to connect with me and the hot young girls tryed to get in touch with me by rubbing on me with their breasts. That's why the guys are agressive. Humans are just apes.


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05 Jan 2020, 9:56 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
After this many guys just wanted to connect with me and the hot young girls tryed to get in touch with me by rubbing on me with their breasts.

Please don't get this wrong. Women who are this way aren't into me but just into the behaviour of dominant apes. They don't even have a crush on me if they do this.


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06 Jan 2020, 4:37 pm

Yes, my d-bag uncles who believe the spectrum isn't real, that being obese is a good thing, and that "real men" have to enlist, work for "blue-collar" employers, and anything of the sort.

They still continue to pick fights with me whenever they visit (because they also want me to be a d-bag just like them) and the next time, I will make sure I stay out of the house disregarding objections my mom may express.


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