The World is Learning What it Means to be Autistic

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21 Mar 2020, 4:35 am

Sporting events cancelled.
Bars and restaurants and nightlife closed.
Forced into being homebodies (except for work and essentials).
"Social distancing," (the epitome of having Asperger's)
The only people on the road and out doing things at night are those who actually have a purpose to serve.
Grocery stores closing early.
Shopping malls closed.
THE LIST GOES ON

They can't do what they've always done. They have to see what life is like being SOCIALLY LIMITED.

NTs are learning what it's like to live as a "high functioning" Autistic. We all know they won't be able to handle it for long, the way we've done all our lives. When does the rioting / looting begin??



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21 Mar 2020, 6:34 am

I don't think the world is learning what it means to be autistic -- the current circumstances is a poor example to compare to and would never do justice.

More like the world is learning more about what it means to be more constantly anxious, isolated and forced into order to some/most extent.



Nothing inherently autistic about it. :lol: More like inherently... Introverted or and if not obsessive compulsive to some ways.


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21 Mar 2020, 7:21 am

Nah, not really. Many autistic people have lives outside their homes too, while many NTs are shut ins normally as well.

Everyone's just gotta learn what it's like to be a shut in, while the actual shut ins are gonna be all "meh" since it doesn't affect their routines anyway.



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21 Mar 2020, 7:49 am

If the situation stabilises and when the time is right, I'll probably reapply for my old job picking organic veg in a team of workers mostly comprised of NTs, not something I would have considered doing until recently. That will mean having to brush up on my masking, hopefully, by then the "banter" will be more tolerable as NTs adjust to the new reality.



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21 Mar 2020, 8:44 am

Not everyone with Aspergers Syndrome are asocial people.Some are,but some are not.It depends how they value being outside of home.It also depends if someone with Aspergers Syndrome can find someone who accept them for who they are.If anything,NT'S are learning how be someone who's in compete isolation and someone who never socialize.



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26 Mar 2020, 5:58 am

rick42 wrote:
Not everyone with Aspergers Syndrome are asocial people.Some are,but some are not.It depends how they value being outside of home.It also depends if someone with Aspergers Syndrome can find someone who accept them for who they are.If anything,NT'S are learning how be someone who's in compete isolation and someone who never socialize.


Whether an Aspie wants to socialize or not, the process is very difficult. Now, the process has become difficult for NTs (in a sense) as their social haunts have all be shut down.

Different reason, but similar outcome. You can't socialize at a bar because you suck at. They can't socialize at a bar (now) because it's closed.



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26 Mar 2020, 6:20 am

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If the situation stabilises and when the time is right, I'll probably reapply for my old job picking organic veg in a team of workers mostly comprised of NTs, not something I would have considered doing until recently. That will mean having to brush up on my masking, hopefully, by then the "banter" will be more tolerable as NTs adjust to the new reality.


Oh yes, I mask...

But I have foud that when I am in a group (They usually call groups teams and use terms like "Team player") I find I work best being set to do a task on my own slightly away from the main group rather then being directly in the group. I am very good at working unsupervized as long as I understand the task involved and I am capeable of doing it on my own. I usually try to lift heavy things myself if I can rather then call for help. (Normally as I can be a less popular part of a group, I may find help is not available as others will try to distance themselves from me. But for me being a team player I can do but from a distance, where I am part of the group but specialize in my own thing within that group if that makes sense?
Example. If I was picking carrots in a field, and all were down one end of the field, I would start at the other end of the field with my own basket and I would probably pick almost as much as the main group! But, if I was in the main group, I would hardly pick a thing as I would be always trying to be out the way of the others and waiting for a gap to pick. The others would just automatically find spaces to pick without thinking).



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26 Mar 2020, 8:49 am

I think one of the key differences involves the lack of sensory overload for NTs under quarantine. I mean, unless some NT gets an extreme case of cabin fever (when the ticking of a clock starts sounding like the pounding of a hammer, for example), NTs start yelling at each other for breathing too loud, and they start wrapping themselves in blankets to curl up and rock inside dark closets for hours at a time, then they might begin to have some understanding of what it means to be autistic.

But, like all of those one-day fasts that NTs go on to "understand" what it is like to endure extreme poverty (... as if...), their ordeals will end and they can go back to their nice, normal, neurotypical ways and forget all about what it is like to have (simulated) autism.

For them, this crisis is only temporary; for us, autism last a lifetime.


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26 Mar 2020, 10:55 am

Where I live things seem to be calm and quiet. Might be different in a city centre mind.

If anything I think the thing that may come out of this is showing a little more respect for other people, plus people behaving a little more civilised when out and about and not being in so much of a hurry. [I know there will always be some that aren't like that].

Also if people are not working then they will be able to de-stress quite a lot, provided they have no immediate money worries.

What we will no doubt find is that the NHS will be very busy in a certain department sometime around Christmas time/early January. 8O :? :heart: :heart: :heart:



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26 Mar 2020, 11:26 am

I would be delighted if that was all it meant to be autistic. But I also have to deal with sensory issues (sometimes severe), executive functioning problems, and frequent shutdowns, just to name a few.


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26 Mar 2020, 3:39 pm

Edna3362 wrote:
I don't think the world is learning what it means to be autistic -- the current circumstances is a poor example to compare to and would never do justice.

More like the world is learning more about what it means to be more constantly anxious, isolated and forced into order to some/most extent.



Nothing inherently autistic about it. :lol: More like inherently... Introverted or and if not obsessive compulsive to some ways.



:mrgreen: obsessive compulsive disorder :evil:

Disinfecting

Hygiene

Six feet distance



The world is learning what it means to be :skull: hypochondriac :D



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26 Mar 2020, 4:36 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
Edna3362 wrote:
I don't think the world is learning what it means to be autistic -- the current circumstances is a poor example to compare to and would never do justice.

More like the world is learning more about what it means to be more constantly anxious, isolated and forced into order to some/most extent.



Nothing inherently autistic about it. :lol: More like inherently... Introverted or and if not obsessive compulsive to some ways.



:mrgreen: obsessive compulsive disorder :evil:

Disinfecting

Hygiene

Six feet distance



The world is learning what it means to be :skull: hypochondriac :D



:lol: :lol: :lol:


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26 Mar 2020, 6:23 pm

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When does the rioting / looting begin??


It already has in some areas. Someone mentioned it in their post in the Random discussion about their whole town being shut down.


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26 Mar 2020, 6:31 pm

They aren't learning a single thing and I hate them all. :x



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26 Mar 2020, 6:35 pm

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When does the rioting / looting begin??
It already has in some areas. Someone mentioned it in their post in the Random discussion about their whole town being shut down.
Link, please? Also, "rioting/looting" and a "whole town being shut down" are not the same thing.


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26 Mar 2020, 6:36 pm

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They aren't learning a single thing ...
Evidence, please?
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... I hate them all.
We know ... we know ...


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