When I was 6, my mom signed me up for swim lessons and of course, we would all have to go underwater. For reasons that I can only blame my aspergers for, I could never get myself to go underwater without an eye and nose covering, and that continues to this day. Whenever I’d go swimming I would wear a swim mask or goggles and a nose plug at places that didn’t allow swim masks. In a couple of instances that I would go to the pool with a girlfriend, I would not wear one so that I don’t look silly. I have been to a waterpark twice this summer and even though I have had no girls to go with(3 different girls have ghosted me online in the past 5 weeks )I haven’t been wearing a mask for the sake of increasing my chances of a girl having the nerve to come up and talk to me, nor do I want to meet anyone in the future who’s like “hey, you were that guy with the mask at the waterpark I saw once”.
Every time I go underwater without any gear my nose gets filled with water and it is not a pleasant feeling. I have heard how I just Have to hold my breath, but basically it’s still a problem for me. Does anyone else have this problem?
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Early 20s male with Asperger’s and what feels like a mood disorder