Do you ever just not vibe with a room?

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I have this experience that I can't better explain than not vibing with a room. My family doesn't really understand what I mean when I try to explain it and I was wondering if anybody else got this and if maybe it was an autistic Thing TM.

So I have my own room and sometimes I just Do Not Simply Vibe With It. There are rooms in my house that I Do Not Vibe With at all, and I'll hardly ever hang out in them for that reason because I just don't feel that comfortable in them.

So I tend to hang out in the same room and then only go in the others if necessary. I don't mind passing through them I just wouldn't opt to relax in them for a prolonged amount of time.

But I can temporarily Stop Vibing with a room that I like. I do *like* my room and it's not a matter of thinking the decor looks ugly or messy or anything like that, it's just sometimes I don't know I feel weird sitting in it, it doesn't feel right, it's not a sensory experience either it's just my brain is like.. No. It doesn't make me feel really distressed or anything it just doesn't feel right.

But then I don't have any room to switch to when I stop vibing with my room because I only vibe with like 2 rooms and there's nothing to do in the other room so it's just.. An experience. It's happening right now.

It takes me a while to adjust to a new room or place, but once I have, I find it difficult to go to another room. I never really adjusted to mum's house, I used to have hallucinations here, rather vivid and 'real' ones and was non-verbal but in early-teenage years, I found comfort in the final room and would stay in there all day, all night making music in comfort and getting 'the vibe' and 'light' out of the room and would rarely leave the room. In fact, reached full spiritual enlightenment in there so had to move out cos it was too overwhelming. I don't vibe with a room with people in it or rather, get vibes too much with the people so don't vibe. I prefer solitary things, I'm a bit of an 'avoider' in that aspect.

There's rooms I don't vibe with. Though it's usually because of sensory reasons, like being too bright/loud, so I guess that's different from your experience.

vibe check, vibe check

yup. 100%.

esp before i took my welbutrin...welbutrin makes me more tolerant of things i could not handle before or that felt wrong for no discernible reason.


it's really obvious with my elder.
e.g. he pulls back and refuses to leave a certain room at my brothers' home even if you put what he wants in another room. he will drag his feet- if u carry him up- he will climb back down, even if he gets up in the middle of the night to.
he has severe ASD.
but hey domestic and big cats do this too.

The only room that doesn’t really bother me is my bedroom, tbh. I mean, it does have my laptop, a PC, a 50” TV, a PS4, and a comfy bed, but it’s just my comfort zone.

I’ve tried numerous medications like Wellbutrin, Effexor, and even antipsychotics without much help for these types of issues. They usually just make into more of a withdrawn “shell” than I already am. The only medication that actually helped was Adderall but I simply can’t take it anymore. Anxiety to the millionth power. But, I’m glad others have had success with meds.

@Fnord, based on a google search.

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