the most important thing in life is your duty. Whatever you are meant to do. At least so far as you are concerned, or anyone else. Most of the time, you are right, that is making relationships and bonding. But that is not the case with me, and I doubt it is the case with you. You may be called to higher duty, and do not be despaired because at this point in your life, the relationship thing is not working. You may have 10 years, you may have 100 years left to work that out, you don't know, you just have some time left. As for your duty, you have some purpose, as we all do, and your job is to find that purpose, the thing you are best at, and work at it on some grand level until you get things done; this is my advice to all Aspies on this forum.
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Skywatcher
-"Look to the future, be aware of the present, and beware of the past." -Me