Everyone Hates Me

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I googled "everyone hates me"

This shows up.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/325705

It shows up as a psychological disorder.

No.

Everyone hates me. Its not a psychological disorder. every hates me. Psychiatrists have a psychiatric disorder for not taking it seriously.

I found that for people to feel strongly about you you'd have to do something for them to feel that way. Figure out what you do that makes them feel that way, then it's your choice if you're going to do anything differently.

People aren't obligated to like you.

That's just silly.

Not everyone knows you.

I know that feeling, though, I know it's incorrect.

I know of one member who doesn't hate you. I know that person very well.

To be hated by everyone you know, you'll have to be an extremely bad person, like a murderer or rapist, which I very much doubt the OP is. Even moderately bad people are liked by some people, in fact if life has taught me anything it's that the meaner you are the more popular you are (not saying the OP is a bad person at all).

People aren't obliged to dislike you either. The OP is probably too nice if anything.

Since the 70's, I seem to sense hatered and anger all around in the environment, and community it seems. Visually, quite a different situation. I mostly see peoples smiling, giggling, communicating, sharing time, presence, resources (well, kinda). Then the news stories speak of the issues (sad and not as sad), local and not as local daily events....
Whilst I try being bubbly, hopeful, to-do list generating, productive, skill learning, therapy giving guidance and tools for the processing (identify;cope; use tools/skills to aid/prevent/cope; self -care/ calm/sooth/recharge) of emotions from interactions, events, or the lack thereof, and what not....

Yes, it's usually because you refuse to crawl up and kiss their bottom.

They hate free thinking individuals and are obsessed with bullying you into conformity...usually in line with their prejudice, ignorance and pointless or needless social conventions.

To the OP try to find people whom will accept and like you for yourself, they are out there...

Everyone hates me

don't argue with me

I don't want any university graduates using their psychiatric crap on me.

Then what DO you want, advice on changing your situation or attention for complaining about it?

Hard post to answer.

All I know is life can be especially tough for us people with ASD who have a tough lot in life.
Getting isolated and being left out of social interactions can make us feel unloved, lonely and like no one cares.

Well, the funny thing is, probably most the people with think don't care, probably don't.
Although this may not be personal. As others mentioned, other people have their own lives, their own social circles,
social circles which as outsiders, it can be extremely hard to break into, especially if you have ASD so have
problems with breaking the ice to start conversations, and in terms of developing conversations and manipulating
conversations to get the other person to get interested in you.

Or worse still, having problems even recognising opportunities when they do arise and then taking those opportunities so that you move on to the next stage in terms of relationships or friendship.

I know, I think that probably most people with ASD feel the same. It is a common problem.
As to whether the statement "All people hate me" is true, I would doubt that such a statement can be.

Even "All people who know me hate me" is unlikely to be true.
As that's is also quiet an extreme.

If you were to make a survey of literally all the people you know and get them to answer the question
do you hate me? you would likely get a mixed result.

There are probably people who you think hate you who may not even know who you are, or who spend very little time even thinking about you. Most people are more self obsessed than you give them credit for.

Now, in life, I have done quiet a lot of dangerous things including some things that involved high level politicians, which were extremely controversial and brought a lot of negative attention to me from the media etc.

And even i don't think all people hate me. Not that i deserve for all people to hate me, but the people who have power in this world, are not Holy and do not wield power with a righteous judgement. More often than not, such people use power to abuse others, and they certainly did abuse their power to abuse me.

But despite all the crap i have been through, i can honestly say that I am not hated by everyone.
Sure, some people hate me. Often because of their own disgrace rather than anything that I have done.
But not all.

I am sure that your life isn't that different.

You are capable of doing what you want in the ways you see fit.

Perhaps university graduates hate me. University is full of crap and university graduates are full of crap. University graduates hate me saying they are full of crap.

you have choices:

continue doing what you are doing.

figure out what "everyone" hates about you and change it to their satisfaction.

find someone that doesn't hate you.

stop worrying about it and do something productive.

I’ve learned that how you feel about others is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. If you hate yourself, then you are more likely to think others hate you. If you love yourself, you will be more likely to think others at least like you. I used to think of myself as unlikeable, then I started making it a point to love who I am. It’s a struggle to be in the spectrum, it makes it a little easier to be your own best friend.

To be liked, one must first be likeable.

Why don't YOU go to University?