ToughDiamond wrote:
Well, I've got ASD but I'm pretty sure if anybody had started cocking me around like that, I'd have very quickly figured out that they hadn't got any respect for me, and either hit back or dumped them. One or two of my partners had a milder form of that sadistic streak I think, but the ones who treated me the worst didn't exactly take pleasure in hurting my feelings, I think they just had issues and weren't capable of developing a good relationship.
As for your friend's ex, I guess she was taking advantage of him, but not particularly of his autism. I hope it was him that ended the relationship.
it's good good you left that person that was terrible. As for my friend he broke up with her (after 6 months)the day after they went to his pub, she started putting him down a lot and yelling @ him, then she started withholding affection from him saying " I have gotten bored of kissing or not in the mood for kissing " she then said his stories about his day were boring and go on and on, then said " I wish u could be not as fast pace, u talk too fast"
Just a ton of a put downs, he sent her this massive text and told her he is done, and then she said "how dare you say I am abusive" etc etc trying to flip it back on him. He never went back to her.